Kinda scary and extremely uncomfortable. Men suck so much sometimes! Like being polite doesn’t mean u have a fucking chance it means I am fucking uncomfortable and kinda scared because of you. Sucks cuz i just wanted to do a nice thing but never again will I for a random man.
A guy (another student) around my student housing asked for a lighter. I said one sec and figured i would run into my house and lend him one. He asked to come in the building cuz it was cold so i say sure thinking he would stay on the main floor. I give him the lighter.
This took over an hour and gave me a lot of anxiety for what I thought would be a nice thing to do, give someone a lighter. And instead turned into a how to do I reject a guy nicely so nothing happens to me thing. He also knows where I live since he followed me to my door.