alright. let’s say ariana came onto social media tomorrow and said, “you were all correct. i do infact have an eating disorder.” then what? what exactly do people think their job is after that? she’s a global celebrity, not someone’s fucking neighbour. she has family. friends. a management team. a record label. doctors. people who ACTUALLY know her. fans are consumers. they are observers. they are not her treatment team, and acting as though it’s the internet’s responsibility to diagnose and manage the health of a woman they’ve never met and know nothing about is absolutely absurd.
people keep acting as though posting “she looks like she’s dying” or “she’s way too skinny” is some noble act of awareness, but if she were genuinely suffering from an eating disorder, there’s a very real possibility that this kind of obsessive public scrutiny would be harmful rather than helpful. recovery from an eating disorder isn’t fuelled by millions of strangers analysing your body from every conceivable angle and in MOST cases, having your appearance constantly dissected becomes part of the disorder itself, reinforcing an unhealthy fixation on weight, shape, and external validation.
so please, enlighten me, what is actually being achieved by turning “is ariana grande too skinny?” into a weekly trending topic? IF the concern is sincere (and i really truly doubt it is), saying it once is enough. after that, it stops reading as concern and starts reading as malice. there is a difference between expressing concern and endlessly consuming someone’s body as a topic of entertainment. i am so fucking sick to death of strangers on the internet who are convinced they have both the authority and the obligation to comment on a woman’s body every single day. THIS IS NOT ADVOCACY.
@forumbunklr Vocês são nojentos ao querer disfarçar de preocupação, uma destilação de ódio que há muito tempo fazem com o pretexto de que “para o melhor dela”. Se manquem!
@forumbunklr Entendam de uma vez por todas, absolutamente ninguém tem o direito de dizer a uma pessoa o que fazer com seu próprio corpo. Ser uma figura pública não dá o direito às pessoas de acharem que podem definir o que é ou não bom para você… Definitivamente, não há o que agir.
@forumbunklr Uma hashtag engorda Ariana? Sinceramente isso mais parece uma tentativa de crescer essa página em uma pauta importante, que não compete a mídia decidir. Se ela está doente ou não, é a rede de apoio dela quem deve estar do lado dela e ajudá-la a seguir o melhor caminho.