Q6. I forgave Amir for cheating on me and moving that wh0re into his apartment. I met him at work and told him to get in my car. He tried to refuse, but I opened my trench coat and showed him my lingerie and my blick on my hip. He got in the car. We went to an Air B&B and I cooked for him and we watched a movie. He couldn't perform (he said he was too afraid to disappoint me in bed and that he'd be better prepared to make love to me next time). We drank and I dozed off. I woke up around 3 a.m. to police at the door. Amir took my car and reported that he had kidnapped me and that he feared for his life. Why are Black men like this? Amir had me arrested for showing him a good time. He's ghosting me. I think he did all that so he wouldn't get in trouble with his new woman, because I could see in his eyes that he still loved me. How do I convince him to drop the charges and give US another chance? We had a good thing and we deserve to keep it going. #SBCCHAT
Q5. I was engaged to Whitney and we were doing well as a unit. Whitney's 17-year-old niece moved in with us after her mother (Whitney's sister) was jailed for theft and mail fraud. Whitney receives no help with the extra bills the teen causes. And the teen demands expensive clothes, etc., and Whitney buys it. Recently, she demanded that Whitney and I fund a weekend trip to Miami. I said no, especially for a minor who is failing her classes. The next day she went to her counselor and claimed that she found a small camera in her bedroom and that I s3xually assaulted her. Whitney's niece produced AI videos and fake text messages to prove my guilt. Whitney put me out. I was arrested at work. I was suspended from my day job and I lost my position as a volunteer football coach. I proclaimed my innocence and fully cooperated with the police. They were railroading me. Finally I got a lawyer and he hired an investigator who debunked the AI videos. The investigator had the camera footage showing the niece planted it herself. I passed my lie detector test with flying colors. While I was clearing my name, Whitney sent her niece to Miami with friends. The niece overdosed the first night and her friends left her there. (RIP). My name was cleared. I am rebuilding my life brick by brick. Recently, Whitney apologized for not believing me and asked me to return. What should I do? I love Whitney but I feel she didn't have my back at all. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q4. This girl I met on TikTok. We went on a few dates, but she insists on going to the same spot repeatedly. I’ve taken her out twice, and she orders the most expensive items on the menu. We talk, have a good time and I spend my little money on her. She’s worth it, I thought. Recently, somebody hit me in my DM‘s and said she did the same thing to him for like six weeks. She takes her dates to the same MID restaurant because the establishment pays her to bring men there. I asked her if we could do something other than eat the MID food at the expensive price and she blocked me. Do I have a case to have her arrested or something? I've spent $600 at that establishment and she didn't give me anything in return, not even sloppy top👅. If I pay for something, shouldn't I receive it? I feel scammed. Help. #SBCCHAT
Q1. Just two years ago, I was in a boring (but loving) relationship with my boyfriend, Mark. Julius was in a relationship with my friend. Julius and I realized we had more in common and we embarked on a life together. Mark moved out, Julius moved in, I lost my friendship but it was worth it. Eight months later, we were evicted from my apartment. We put our things in storage, bought a tent and successfully lived in his van. We don’t have children so this was a change, but we were making it work while we got our coins together. One morning after dropping him off at work at the casino, I decided to splurge and buy myself an egg McMuffin. I went into McDonald’s to wash up in the bathroom and just sit down and enjoy my breakfast. I was in there for 30 minutes. I came outside and the van was gone; it had been repossessed. I had no idea he wasn’t paying the car note. I asked him where the money went and he told the truth: He doesn't work at the casino, he goes there every day to gamble. He's been gambling every penny and losing big time. I was forced to move back in with my mom. He returned to his ex-girlfriend. I want this relationship to work, but I'm unemployed and I don't have much to bring to the table right now. How do I prevent him from falling back in love with his ex? I have a lot of love to give him and he deserves it. Help. #SBCCHAT
mon petit frère il dm mes copines après mes copines elles lui disent t’es pas le frère à Morena vous savez il dit quoi ???? « je vois pas de qui tu parles » ????????????