feeling kinda unmotivated to continue making audios bc I've realised voice dysphoria is a big thing for me & also the constant misgendering and casual transphobia is wearing me down
"Favourite Queer book? Queer movie? Queer video game? Queer?" - queer book - the well of loneliness (VERY TRAGIC)
queer movie - carol
queer video game - uhh I've played dream daddy once upon a time #tellonym
"I have a friend who is abusive in his relationships, how can I stop him from doing this to more people?" - talk to him, maybe get a bunch of friends to talk to him. personally i can't be friends with abusers and also I would warn all the people he tries to date. #tellonym
"what was the last thing you read, it donest have to be a book" - just read the first half of italo calvino's "the castle of crossed destinies" #tellonym
"What to do when they don't let me have privacy at home and they keep going through my things?" - keep everything locked/with you at all times/on a computer. im sorry for you :/ #tellonym
"how do you feel about ur ex being with someone new" - i actually reached out to his then gf about some of the stuff he put me thru, she responded cordially & I hope he didn't hurt her #tellonym
"Do you have tips for those who are starting a healthy relationship after having been through abusive relationships?" - pls take time to heal first lol it took me 2 years to feel ready again #tellonym