We have a cultural obsession with attacking men as if they are all holding the keys to the world, completely ignoring the reality of the everyday man. Society literally treats average men like disposable machinery.
They make up the overwhelming majority of workplace fatalities, they work the most grueling, invisible jobs to keep society functioning, and they do it in absolute silence. The internet acts like every man has life handed to him on a silver platter, when in reality, most men are just holding the weight of their family's survival on a deteriorating spine. We demand their physical and financial sacrifice, happily consume the safety they build, and then have the audacity to log online and tell them they have it easy.
We women live a terrifying double life. A mother will look at her teenage son with absolute, boundless empathy. She will hold him when he cries, tell him his feelings matter, and pray to God that he finds a woman who loves him for his pure heart, not his wallet.
But that exact same woman will turn around and look at her husband, who is literally someone else’s grown son and treat him like a malfunctioning piece of farm equipment if he loses his job or shows a moment of emotional fragility. We completely compartmentalize the fact that the men we drain, stress out, and demand traditional protection from were once little boys who were promised that their hearts mattered.
Look at the advice mothers pass down. It is pure, unfiltered hypocrisy.
We sit our daughters down and say: "Never settle. Make sure he is a provider. If he is struggling financially, do not build him up, leave him. You deserve a King." But if a mother catches wind that her son's girlfriend is treating him that way? If her son loses his job and his girlfriend packs her bags? That mother will lose her mind. She will call the girlfriend a gold-digger. She will call her toxic.
We are actively raising our daughters to become the exact type of women we pray our sons never meet.
Girl issue. Men don't even want other men to want their women.
This further proves that women are more CROWD based than QUALITY base.
To a woman, if other women don't want you, you're deficient and it doesn't matter your presence in her life, as a man.
To a man, if other men don't want his woman, he's super OK because he chose her for himself and not them and he sees her presence in his life.
99% Nigerian feminists are sadists. They are emergency feminists because of their past lifestyles and traumas. They are feminists by circumstances, they just don't understand what feminism is about.
They hate men because they were rejected because of their past lifestyles.
Point me to the good work Nigerian feminists have done in Girlchild lives and in society generally, apart from instilling hatred in gullible women to hate men.
HeartMattaz
Before you sleep know this, no matter who your woman is, along the way she’ll cheat. If you’ve been together for like 2 years going, she has probably cheated, you just haven’t seen it.‼️
I learned selfishness from women.
They really know how to put themselves first
Watch how a woman leaves the moment, she stops feeling benefit.
No guilt, No hesitation
1. Cheating
2. Disrespect
3. Having male friends
4. Keeping in touch with ex
5. Hugging everyone you know
6. Exposing cleavage
7. Wearing indecent dresses
8. Crying over everything
9. Manipulation
10. Not having sense
11. Low IQ
12. Dull brain
13. Being broke
14. Begging for money all the time
15. Collecting money from guys anyhow
16. Receiving calls too much
17. Being too religious
18. Lies too much
19. Feminist
20. Always playing victim / victim mentality
21. Always on TikTok / social media 24/7
22. No ambition / no goals in life
23. Entitled attitude
24. Always late
25. Bad hygiene / doesn’t take care of herself
26. Talks badly about other women
27. Jealous & insecure over nothing
28. Can’t cook (or refuses to learn)
29. Always wants to be babied / treated like a child
30. Posts thirst traps constantly
The irony of this is that, a man could open a business for a woman, bring the customers from her connects, pay the annual rents, still carry all the bills at home and she will give herself all the glory and attribute it to her hardwork.
In fact, if you even credit a man for it, there will be problem.
Man go hustle with empty stomach, squat with him guys, avoid women because he is broke, get his breakthrough, start making money, gets a woman and credit the woman for his success 😂😂
i don't want a woman to ever settle for me. go find your dream man, and if you can't find him, don't come trying to use me in the process.
i want mine clingy, reassuring, nasty, unapproachable, God fearing & eyes on only me.
@AfiaDimple_ A woman is only kind to a man because of her shortcomings (being less beautiful, being broke, having no career etc). Give a woman beauty and money and watch her become ruthless.
So when a man shows kindness to a woman, she automatically assumes he’s lacking some things.