Lanthir Calendae

I'm a transgender and autistic artist, gardener, and nerd in central VA. My pronouns are they/them/their. I am also disabled, Jewish, and queer. Born 1987.

[Lanthir Calendae @Lanthir44]

Cooler weather is coming, and I sell lots of warm, cozy, knitted things! Mostly #LGBTQ pride stuff! I'm a disabled artist with no income other than sales, so retweets help me immensely!
See more in this thread for pricing. I am happy to take commissions as well! DM me!

[Lanthir Calendae @Lanthir44]

@cyranope ... Wtaf do they think a vagina even IS

[Patrick S. Tomlinson @stealthygeek]

As will everyone today whining about "Wokeness" in Star Trek as if that hasn't been its foundational DNA from the start.

Your screams about non-binary characters and gay couples already look as ignorant and backward as the people who shrieked about TV's 1st interracial kiss.

[Patrick S. Tomlinson @stealthygeek]

"Old" Star Trek doesn't look "Woke" today because the civil rights battles it fought were won so decisively, so overwhelmingly, that nobody questions if it was right or not anymore.

And in 50 years, the "Woke" Star Trek of today will seem just as tame and mundane.

[CZEdwards.bsky.social @CZEdwards]

Well, my dude, FATHERS are legally required to shelter, feed and pay for the medical needs of their children, and we take them to court all the time for being deadbeats.

Employer-employee is NOT parental. So please fold up that paternalism til it’s all sharp corners and shove…

[Briana Mills, LMFT ♿️🏳️‍🌈🍉 @theBrianaMills]

No one talks enough about the heavy grief of losing your abilities over time due to disability/chronic illness. It’s so hard to wake up never knowing if today will be the last day your body isn’t able to do something. It’s harrowing and deeply painful.

[collagen machine broke @chronicallybeee]

the reason you feel we are “trivializing” in person social interaction is because you clearly do not seem to understand that in person social interaction during a pandemic is less important to us THAN OUR FUCKING LIVES.

[collagen machine broke @chronicallybeee]

every single time someone says “stop stigmatizing NPD and calling people narcissists and saying that narcissists are inherently abusive”, someone comes in the replies like “um narcissists are abusive and you’ve clearly never met a narcissist or been abused”

[Lanthir Calendae @Lanthir44]

@UrsulaV 'Squonk' is a *very* good descriptor for that sound

[Kingfisher & Wombat @UrsulaV]

ALSO YOU CAN DIE OF SLEEP APNEA BECAUSE IT TURNS OUT THAT SHIT IS REALLY HARD ON YOUR HEART SO JUST TELL YOUR DAMN DOCTOR ALREADY BEFORE YOUR SPOUSE GETS YOUR PUBLISHER INVOLVED OR SOMETHING

[Lanthir Calendae @Lanthir44]

I'm in the Fry Spring area of #charlottesville and um. What the FUCK caught fire? There is billowing smoke outside that smells like plastic and rubber. It's everywhere, but appears to be coming from the direction if the train tracks??