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Let me share my opinion from my perspective, na?
I’m speaking about this in general, by the way, not about any specific couple.
Here’s how I see it: I don’t think people should get mad at BL fans for “falling for” fan service and genuinely believing in the couples they idolize… because isn’t that what the actors are selling in the first place? One of the things that BL couples market is the fan service and the chemistry between them.
So I don’t think BL fans should be blamed or attacked for getting carried away and emotionally invested in these BL couples. If an actor doesn’t want to be shipped or feels uncomfortable with being seen as a “fixed couple,” then maybe they shouldn’t choose to go down that route in the first place, you know?
Like, why is it that when they’re still building their careers, they sell all this closeness and couple content, but once they become successful, they suddenly feel like they can stand on their own and seem to forget about the early fans who supported them and helped them get there?
And honestly, I think people need to be a little more fair to BL fans too. You can’t spend years building a career by selling a certain kind of image, actively feeding into the couple dynamic, encouraging fans to believe in the chemistry, and then suddenly blame those same fans for taking it seriously.
Of course, fans should still understand the difference between fan service and the actors’ real lives. But at the same time, you can’t expect everyone to simply switch off their emotions the moment the actors decide they no longer want to be associated with that image.
At the end of the day, fan service is part of the product. The fans didn’t create that dynamic out of nowhere — it was presented, promoted, and often encouraged by the artists and the people managing their careers. So I just don’t think it’s fair to shame fans for reacting exactly the way that kind of marketing is designed to make them react.
And this doesn’t mean actors owe their fans a romantic relationship or that fans are entitled to their private lives. It’s simply about acknowledging that there’s responsibility on both sides. If you benefit from a certain fandom dynamic when you’re starting out, don’t suddenly treat the fans who supported that dynamic like they’re stupid, delusional, or annoying once you’ve outgrown it.