Someone else gets what you're imagining and fantasising right now. You only get to watch and beg for it, nothing more. The gap between watching and having is the whole fantasy.
Every day you're making decisions and managing things. Somewhere in the back of your mind, there's a version of you is exhausted. Submission isn't about weakness; it's about knowing there's someone who can hold that weight so you don't have to. Letting go isn't losing control.