Lordina💫

All about positivity😍||A covenant child🔥||A professional facilitator👩‍🏫

[Nithya Shri @Nithya_Shrii]

Normalize using Sundays to rest. Your life doesn’t need to be productive every day.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

i love unscheduled happiness, the "i wasn't expecting this" type of happiness.

[uniq @ethrealuniq]

regardless of how you were raised, it’s your job to grow up.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

Manifesting a man who says “I need my girl” when he’s having a rough day and rushes home just to be with me.

[Wilinfeels @wilinfeels]

I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries.

[Chefabbys @chefabbys]

Fufu tastes better with palm nut soup than light soup but we are not ready for this conversation

[Ayesha 🌸 @Ayesha_diaries1]

What men call “romance” vs what women actually want as romance

Man’s version:
• Buying flowers once a year
• Planning a fancy dinner on her birthday
• Saying “I love you” after sex
• Surprising her with jewelry she never asked for

Woman’s version:

[Quzzulqurt @quzulkurt50]

Bir gün yeni doğum yapmış olacaksın ve gerçekten kimi seçip evlendiğin çok önemli olacak.

[` @schiz04renic]

imagine lying to a woman who already knew the truth and was giving you one last chance to be honest

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

i heard someone say, “eldest daughters need a partner who makes their lives easier or no partner at all” and i felt that.

[S. ✰ ✰ ✰ ✰ @shirlsssssss]

i’m a good woman but i’m not the woman you keep testing just to see how good i am.

[Victor @_ko5p_]

your partner actually liking you as a friend is important. romantic love is not enough.

[ỌMỌ́TÁRÁ LAWRENCE @theladymotara]

The moment I feel like I’m forcing anything, I lose interest immediately walai.

[Reechmilly @Reechmilly]

Ignoring the red flags because you wanna see the good in people will cost you later.

[🦋 @leftunsents]

as my final act of love, I will step back. I won't text, call, or try to reach out first.
I won't wait for replies or hope you'll change your mind. I'm learning that sometimes love means letting go.

sometimes it means giving someone the space they need, even if it leaves a quiet ache in your heart. I used to think love was about holding on no matter what. Now I understand it's also about knowing when to stop trying.

i will remember you quietly, wish you well silently, and move forward with the hope that one day the space between us will feel lighter. This final act of love is not just for you - it's for me too.

[The woman @Tarmeim]

Breakups hurt, yeah. But you know what hurts even more? Staying with someone who keeps showing you they don't value you, don't make you a priority, and don't care about how you feel. Waiting for them to change. Settling for the bare minimum. Ignoring every sign because you're holding onto hope. That kind of pain lasts far longer than the breakup itself.

Sometimes the deepest heartbreak isn't losing them—it's realizing you spent so long trying to earn a love that should've been given freely. That's the part that really hurts.

[blessing Ailen @ib_Ailen]

She rejected her husband’s hug and he sent her this.

Emotionally intelligent men >>>>>

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

I’ve realized a lot of relationships only exist because one person is silently tolerating a whole lot of bullshit

[SpongeBob's Wife🥹🥹 @ToxicSideChick_]

No one plays victim harder than the man who started the mess

[𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 @Mzdelah]

Emotional intelligence is the ability to:

Recognize your own emotions
Understand why you feel what you feel
Manage your reactions
Discern the emotions of others, respond with wisdom and self-control