Lawrence James

Understand narcissism, defend against manipulation, recover from narcissistic abuse by building a life on your own terms.

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

In 2016, I married a cultist.

Then I spent 3 years in a toxic relationship

We moved country. We had a son together. And when it fell apart, so did I…

It was the best thing to ever happen to me

I walked away with these 16 powerful lessons:

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

@wadejbeckett Guys… can we just TRY freedom?

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@jimburgess Are you still at the pub?

[JIM BURGESS @Jimburgess]

Easy business idea:

>Makes me £1,000/month per client
>For less than 2–3 hours of work

Here’s the exact system

Steal it:

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Reminder

Done > Perfect

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

@jimburgess You’re wrong!

More podcasts. More data. Consume. Obey!!

COLD SHOWERS — must. Be. Millionaire!!!!

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

A hard lesson I had to learn:

Helping people isn’t always honourable.
It’s not helpful either when you think about it

For most of my life I thought saving and helping everyone else made me a good person.

• my mate leaves the stove on? I fixed it.
• GF needs a lot of attention? I’m always there.
• Job needs overtime? I said yes.

What happened?

I took on so many of other people’s problems the weight nearly crushed me

Sound familiar?

If this is you too let me ask you this…

if you’re so good at saving others — Why not save yourself?

Remember

You teach people how to treat you.

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Buy book not Netflix

Best advice your gonna get on here

[Laura Matsue @lauramatsue]

How The Hero's Journey is Different for Women

Did you know the Hero's Journey, the model of psychological and spiritual transformation made famous by Joseph Campbell, doesn't quite fit into a woman's psychospiritual map of development?

A woman's heroine's journey is often marked by a deep inner quest that begins with:

- A rejection of your feminine nature, reflected in turning away from your mother, body, feelings, and intuition

- An identification with the masculine, through logic, intellect, achievement, and external validation

- A loss of soul, as you sacrifice your feminine essence in pursuit of masculine approval

This eventually leads to a disillusionment moment, which then leads into...

A descent into the mother wound, where you must face the many ways you have exiled the feminine within

And finally, a return to both your feminine and masculine nature, through the sacred inner marriage (hieros gamos) that restores you to wholeness

This is outlined in Maureen Murdocks model of the Heroine's Journey:

The beginning of this journey begins with a call.

It often arises at a major transition moment: a shift in career, divorce, motherhood, illness...

It's a moment when you realize who you were no longer fits.

This begins the search for a new identity...

The journey also often begins with a rejection of the feminine.

Your sensitivity, softness, feelings, your intuition is cast off as unreliable and weak.

To succeed, you must put on your armour and become what the world rewards:

Being logical. Efficient. Productive.

You learn to excel by embodying masculine traits
.
You may chase degrees, titles, money.

You may even become independent, driven, and respected in your field,

While within, you struggle...
... because something essential is missing.

Eventually, the mask cracks.
You begin to feel empty, numb, burned out.
You may have "succeeded", people in your outer world may be proud, and to onlookers you may seem to "have it all"
...but it came at the cost of your body, feelings, and soul.

You may then begin to ask:
"What is all this for?"
This is your soul calling you to wholeness.

This moment begins the descent...
...into the underworld and to face all you've suppressed and rejected.

You must meet your grief, rage, and all the parts of yourself you have abandoned.

You have to heal the split with the feminine: the disconnection from your body, creativity, your intuition.

The split that was created when you tried to separate from your mother... but lost connection to your feminine nature in the process.

You need to learn how to BE, and not just DO.
This process can take weeks, months, years.
Friends and family may think somethings wrong with you.
Because the heroine's quest won't be rewarded by the outer world.
You learning to find value not in what you do, but in who you are.

This descent and soul retrieval leads you to true wholeness.
The sacred marriage within.
The inner marriage allows you to embody both wisdom and courage, receptivity and action.
You becomes capable of both loving fiercely and taking clear action.
You

You can then create a new foundation from which to build your life,
one that is not defined on what you achieve, or who approves of you...
But in the healing presence you embody.
This is the heroine's journey of feminine awakening:
wholeness, not perfection.

Listen to our new Cosmic Matrix podcast "How The Hero's Journey is Different for Women" for a masterclass on this entire process here: https://t.co/dE36Mg77NW

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Things okay right now?

Stop

Ask: “am I stressed about something?”

Have a think…

Just in case

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

No narcissism isn’t just “being selfish otherwise everyone would be one

But I get why you’d say it

Most people look at what they do and don’t care about how the think (me too at one point)

Reality is this: they have a split personality. They withdraw into a fantasy bubble world and gaslight themselves into believing they’re perfect.

They spend their life in a permanent dissociative psychosis and relate to projections, not people

That’s who you’re dealing with

A toddler in an adults body

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Learn these 5 key narcissism concepts if you want to recover from toxic abuse

• the shared fantasy
• narcissistic supply
• trauma bonding
• codependency
• splitting

Discover now. Recover sooner.

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

The narcissist and the codependent form the ultimate toxic partnership.

One bullies for attention

The other gives attention to avoid being bullied

But you weren’t weak.
It’s not about growing balls

It’s about understanding your part in the relationship

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Ran the numbers myself.

ChatGPT says it’s over for me…

But even ChatGPT is giving based advice to boost my chances:

- be the guy your dream girl dreams of
- lead with values, not vetting
- loosen the grip on perfection, tighten it on principles

[hoe_math = PsychoMath @ItIsHoeMath]

I once dated a girl with a tiny tattoo of a leaf on her hip. it was brown, to symbolize autumn. It looked kind of like the raccoon leaf from Super Mario 3.

I asked her about it, and she said that she felt pressured by her social group to get a tattoo, and she just sort of... liked the autumn season, so that's what she got. She also said she was embarrassed of it, and that she didn't know why she listened to her friends.

I kind of liked that explanation. She had one little taste of hivemind lunacy and didn't like it, so she went back to being a normal human. It showed that she was not so cold as to ignore her friends, but also not such a pushover that she would change her personality to fit in with lunatics.

When I see women covered in janky tattoos, like the 4 in my last face-swap video, it gives me exactly the same feeling as reading an expiration date that's 3 weeks past. Like "there's no possible way this is still good."

I think my standards for women are extremely reasonable, but grok says there are only 1476 total eligible women in the entire USA. And I dated one of them last year and it didn't work out, partially because I just didn't have enough cash stacked yet to start the life she wanted. It's been over a year, and I still don't! Her mother told her she needed a guy with $5M net worth.

Anyway if you are one of the remaining 1475, reach out! This is probably where they'd be, after all.

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

4 Things in Every Cult 👇

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

If you know someone in a cult (or a toxic realtionship) and you want to help...

DO NOT cut them off

the BEST thing you can do for them, is let them know that you are there for them.

If you cut them off... you'll force them depeer into the cult

with a warm relationship, who are they going to go to when they start having questions...?

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

Facts don’t care about your feelings

But facts won’t mean sh*t unless you can make people care enough to listen

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

The hardest pill to swallow (after a toxic relationship)

You played a ROLE

They were your everything. And you were their dutiful servant.

Now it's all over, but they're casting you as a NEW role in their fantasy production:

The Villain

As much as it hurts, don't play into it...

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

“The body is a field, not a factory”

Loved that

[Larry Cook @stopvaccinating]

WOW - FACEBOOK POST!!!

They taught you the heart was just a glorified meat pump. That it squeezes and pushes blood like some crude mechanical device. A hydraulic engine made of flesh. That is what they want you to believe. Because if you buy into that primitive lie, you never ask deeper questions.

But it is false. It has always been false. And the real science proves it.

Dr Francisco Torrent-Guasp, a Spanish cardiac researcher, discovered what the textbooks refuse to acknowledge, that the heart is not a pump. He dissected thousands of hearts and found that the heart is a single continuous muscle band, folded into a spiral. He proved the heart works like a vortex generator, creating suction and torque, not pressure.

He called it the Helical Ventricular Myocardial Band and it changes everything.

The real movement of blood comes from pressure differentials, electromagnetic flow, and coherent resonance. The blood spirals naturally. It does not need to be forced through miles of arteries and capillaries. That idea is beyond stupid. The so-called pump is not strong enough to push thick fluid through 60,000 miles of tubing. That is basic physics. That lie was dead on arrival.

Here is the truth. Blood moves before the heart forms in the embryo. It flows via frequency, resonance, and electric charge. The body is a field, not a factory.

Your heart creates a toroidal electromagnetic field that radiates six metres from the body. This field syncs with the Earth, the Sun, and every living being around you. It is a resonator. A tuner. A conductor. It aligns the rhythm of your cells. It feels. It remembers. It emits. And it responds to emotion, thought, light, sound, and breath.

When you feel love, grief, fear, or peace, your heart transmits it. It is the central frequency modulator of your biology. Not a fucking pump.

And the institutions know this. The HeartMath Institute has measured these fields for decades. They know the heart has more neuronal cells than parts of the brain. They know it is a second brain. They know coherence in the heart transforms the entire nervous system.

So why are they still teaching children a 400-year-old guess from William Harvey that has never been updated?

Because if you knew the truth, you would never accept statins or beta blockers again. You would understand that trauma, emotion, and disconnection break the heart field, not cholesterol. You would stop obeying the medical cartel and start tuning your body like the intelligent frequency field it is.

They do not want coherent humans. They want disrupted, inflamed, fragmented people who rely on drugs to survive. That is the business model. And the fake heart pump lie is central to it.

Your heart is not a pressure valve. It is a vortex. A field tuner. A resonating gateway between physical and energetic worlds.

It is the instrument of your soul.
And it has been hijacked by science that refuses to evolve.

Jamie Freeman

[Lawrence James @LawrenceJJames]

@Ollieemberson ☝️ my family on every school-run

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