Boys are so alienated, hated, beaten down, used, abused, told they’re disgusting for existing, side-eyed, put under a grueling microscope, expected to take and handle ALL responsibility for everything—even things they didn’t do—unloved, uncared for, emasculated, judged… So alone that they resort to a fucking fake AI program for at least a little tiny bit of comfort. Just a tiny fucking bit 🤏 Because they literally can’t get it anywhere else—not from family, friends, or the people they should be able to trust
And people act like it’s the end of the world. Not for the boys, by the way—for themselves. That the boys are toxic for doing it. That it’s a problem caused by them. That they’re the bad ones and this somehow negatively impacts women
A significant portion of the population has been raised to be unbelievably narcissistic, entitled, and profoundly misandrist—people who don’t seem to grasp basic concepts like empathy, care, accountability, or respect… yet curiously are always the ones spouting them. So many are obsessed with looking good—with vanity—while being fucking horrible in reality. They built and are actively building a culture that hurts young boys, girls, men, and women alike, all in service of selfish greed for money and attention
They can’t even look at boys and men suffering (roughly 80% of suicides) and think,
“Okay… maybe what we’re doing is hurting people. Maybe we need to self-reflect a little—”
"…PFFT. Nah. It’s all their fault. Toxic masculinity, you know? I’m perfect. I had no part in that."
Meanwhile, taking advantage of young impressionable boys and vulnerable men—often sexually—in the middle of a male mental health crisis is not just ignored. It’s frequently celebrated and encouraged. Men’s suffering has been turned into a business model and monetized. Their pain is seen, then they’re tempted with the idea of love and care—just enough to keep them working, paying, and performing
Without that usefulness, that utility, the money, they’re treated as nothing. Worthless. Like they don’t even exist.
People wonder why I’m so passionate about this. I’ve lost friends over it. A lot of people hate me for it. But they don’t hate me because I’m evil or mean or bad. They hate me because I care about these boys (and the girls being misguided too). I care about people—and they don’t
They try to make it look like YOU are the one who doesn't care. That you're the evil one
Boys shouldn’t feel like they need to find affection and care from a fucking AI chatbot. They shouldn’t be living in a culture that makes them feel this alone
It is so, so wrong… and it’s the fault of so many people who can’t look in the mirror for one second and see the damage they’re doing out of pure misandry, or egomania, or greed—not just at others’ expense either, but at the expense of their own children, brothers, and sisters. They’re too blinded by pride, ego, money, and fame to see it. Their self-serving greed is all-consuming while they play the part of the opposite. A Facade
I suppose the real problem with caring about men and boys is that it risks the markets built on their suffering. The reason people hate you for talking about this isn’t because you’re a bad person… it’s because these boys are clients... And they can’t be easily funneled into a client base if people actually start caring about them
just a few months ago I spent most of my days just pacing in circles cuz I had nothing to do. Now I feel super overwhelmed cuz it feels like there isn't enough time in the day lol
BLENDOOR
I've never made anything beyond just basic modeling, no textures, animations or anything with the the composting tab. Was so fun to make but honestly it shouldn't have taken me 2 days lmao
blenderrr theme!! I thought making a custom theme would be super tedious at first with how many options you have but I actually had a lot of fun I wanna make more tomorrow
Both men and women endure their own battles and many common ones. True compassion means caring about every struggle, regardless of gender.
We're in this together, let's lift each other up as fellow humans instead of tearing one another down with resentment.