me for the past few years abehdjw
idk if this works for everyone, but at some point u just have to accept you're molded by your experiences and it is a part of you
you don't have to see them in a good light, but the fact you are alive despite everything is enough
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
I find it jarring how every woman Ive met. who chose to be childfree always seem to have the patience, income, and mental maturity perfect for raising a child. Yet everytime I see a woman who’s open to having a child they’re the exact opposite.