Lebogang

An attorney, not your attorney || A light spirit navigating this world one tweet at a time.

[Lebogang @Lebby_ummeli]

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[MSIZI 🇿🇦 @msiziworld]

Having a naturally intimidating aura is so exhausting. People will go to the wildest extremes to humble me or compete with me. Meanwhile, I'm literally just trying to exist.

[MOTASE @TheRealMotase]

She found the pots and cooked!

[Kéne @AtuanyaKene]

There’s a level of disrespect that permanently changes how soft I can be with you.

[Ginger @Gboye_Rave]

Your first mistake in Life as a woman , is to assume a man doesn’t know what he is doing .

[KABUGO @Kabugo_]

Loose lips don't just sink ships. They sink marriages, promotions, friendships and side businesses. The shipwreck is always a mouth-related incident.

[Misandry Olympian 🐝🤠 @Zoemkoena]

Ukulasta as a woman is highly determined by how much bullshit you're willing to tolerate

[kgadi♠️ @Kgadi_yaMoloto]

Hot take: Toxic families don’t address what actually happened. They attack the person who pointed it out and make them the problem.

[Mamello🧚🏽‍♀️ @MelloFelicia1]

As someone who's struggled a lot financially and has now a better salary, money did in fact solve my problems, and it did in fact, buy happiness

[𐌁𐌉Ᏽ 𐌕𐌉𐌌𐌉 @OrevaZSN]

Everything is urgent in the corporate world except recognition and salary raise.

[autist @litteralyme0]

“2026 is gonna be my year”

Me on February 14th:

[AI Panda @AIPandaX]

I told my therapist:

“I feel safest when I do everything alone.”

She didn’t even ask why.
She just looked at me gently and said:

[Libriscent @libriscent]

RED FLAG: Someone who avoids hard conversations and calls it "peace." Growth requires discomfort. Avoidance repeats the cycle. Pay attention to the patterns. Emotionally mature people don't disappear, they repair.

[goma @soigomaa]

My therapist told me:
"When a person grows up-...feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving.
They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them.
So they become the caretaker.
The fixer.
The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them."
And the hardest part?
Deep down, they're not trying to be strong.
They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else."

[6ɪx✦ @ok6ixx]

I am not depressed, nor am i sad, but life has definitely taken something from me that no longer allows me to smile the way i used to.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

Men are supposed to lead the relationship, not match the energy of women. Women are reciprocators not initiators. The man leads she follows. The man makes the effort and she mirrors it. It’s simple.

[Ms.K @mskmalibu]

every time a girl pretends not to care about Valentine’s Day or her birthday bc she knows she won’t get anything on the day, an angel’s wings fall off. it’s okay to care and be disappointed and sad

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

laziness can kill a relationship. no you're not cheating, but there's also no flowers, no surprises, no appreciation posts, no sweet messages, no dates (unless your s/o practically begs you for them). so yes, the truth is laziness CAN slowly kill love. sometimes simply being loyal just isn't enough.

[✨fєαяℓєѕѕℓσяι✨ @Fearlesslori___]

A woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. And no, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.

[𐌁𐌉Ᏽ 𐌕𐌉𐌌𐌉 @OrevaZSN]

I have to marry somebody who takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries… everything must all be celebrated fully in my household.

[Chi @__Poisonivyyy]

Resentment is weird because yes i want to forgive you whole heartedly but my mind is struggling to comprehend why did you do that to me.