A person who resents a no hears every refusal as rejection of them, so they push and negotiate. The person who respects a no hears it as information and moves on.
Rapists and coercers fall under the former.
The family of Yonela Bhaneti from Alice in the Eastern Cape is asking for help looking for their daughter. Yonela was a passenger (taxi) and survived the N1 accident on Monday 14 September. Out of shock, she ran away from the accident scene and has not been located.
#N1Crash
If you grew up obsessed with Identity Discovery and murder documentaries/investigation shows, then you will know that no amount of precautions will keep women safe from people who are determined to harm them.
Women cannot ‘extra-careful’ rapists & murderous men, please put your inane warnings to rest. Olerato shared her location with loved ones, Uyinene was at the post office, Cwecwe was at school; the list goes on. We don’t have a careless women problem, we have a murderous men one.
And in the midst of Tsontso being missing… people still want to claim that a man that undressed a woman laying in a ditch and wore her clothes is innocent South Africans? Please BFFR
He clocked it, gave us loads of music so we can leave him alone to play games and drink Heineken in peace, and eat his album royalties, chill jitta fr🙏🏾😭