At the end of the day, we all make time for what matters to us, and that’s okay.
It’s okay to be a catch up friend. But if someone isn’t okay with only being the catch up friend to you and decides to step away from the friendship, don’t call them selfish.
Complaining about nightlife when you *checks notes* choose to live in Soho is like living in South Kensington and complaining about the museums. Or moving to Hackney and grumbling about creatives. Living in Richmond and hating green space. It's all getting a bit silly, isn't it?