my mom says “If a man wants the benefits of having a good woman without the responsibility of being a good man. That’s not a partner. That’s a parasite.”
This older lady just said to me:
"You date at the level of your self esteem and maturity. No grown woman tolerates games and no grown man plays them."
And WOW.
I'll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me again. I like to love. I like to laugh. I like to be happy. So if I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
I overheard a woman saying she feels bad for being “high maintenance,” and her husband told her, “I don’t mind. I’m willing to support you.”
That’s when I realized the right person won’t make you feel guilty for needing care, softness, or support.
A soulmate is someone who is committed to working through stuff together and doesn’t see giving up as an option – they’re willing to have difficult discussions and are always dedicated to finding solutions that make you both feel loved, reassured and respected in the relationship
A man must be scared to disappoint you, scared to lose you, scared to made you sad, scared to break your heart. I think a healthy relationship requires a level of fear on the man’s end.
love complimenting women when they out with they man like yea dumb ass nigga u need to KNOW your girl is BEAUTIFUL never ever play with her or u gone die have a good day