“já fui camelô, faxineira, cuidadora de idosos, atendente de telemarketing… Tenho orgulho de tudo o que fiz e de cada trabalho que tive. Acredito que, até aqui, a minha maior conquista foi conseguir dar algum conforto aos meus familiares. Mas penso alto e não vou parar”.
It’s not even about whether Issa’s husband cares or not, it’s the fact that WE don’t know, that’s important. If he didn’t care, wonderful! If he did care, that conversation is handled between him and his wife.
Feeling uncomfortable in and of itself isn’t the issue.
When are you going to accept that you don’t have dominion over your partners body? You never did and you never will. You can object all you like but she will have the last word. Her body, her rules.
Either interrogate your feelings constructively or hit the bricks, fam.