Someone in my comments called me “Temu El-Rufai’s Son” and it has put me into a deep depression since last night, I think it may even be cancer.
Allah ya isa.
For any woman who needs to hear this:
There are loving men out there. Men who will sit down and truly listen when something is bothering you. Men who will take accountability, apologize sincerely, and understand how their actions affect you.
There are men who are emotionally aware, communicate well, and are willing to grow with you. Men who will make you feel valued, appreciated, and safe.
You do not have to spend years enduring trauma with someone who refuses to communicate or lacks emotional intelligence. You are worthy of healthy, genuine love, and I promise you, it does exist.
My biggest fear rn isn't death. It's the fear of praying five times a day and realizing on the day of judgement that none of it was accepted 🥹
Yah Allah, accept all our acts of ibadah🥹