Marriage is not a treatment plan for lust.
Why are people asking, “What happens when your wife is on her period?” as though marriage exists primarily to satisfy sexual desires.
Self control is a fruit you cultivate before marriage, not a gift marriage automatically gives you.
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Middle belt have been crying for years on hears
You just pretended to be deaf and our leaders kept pretending it didn’t affect them and covered for the ruling party
We are all culpable and you’re lying to yourself
Children are in the forest dying you dey write textbook for who to read on social media? Their parents? It can never be well with the president and his advisers. Ghouls. Wicked, soulless people
I’m telling you that your government doesn’t respect you enough to rescue kidnapped babies in a bid to convince you to vote for them, instead, are relying on rice campaign and you’re crying.
See you, see your chains.
Elections are coming. Tell them to have shame and pretend to give a crumb of a fuck.
If not for anything, for children whose only crime is trying to get an education.
On this day, children's day, let's all remember that over 50 Nigerian children were kidnapped in Oyo state and are currently being held hostage under the most horrifying conditions, while their president focuses on his diabolical politics.
For these children and their parents and relatives, there is nothing to celebrate.
Some blatant BS on Tunde Onakoya's post and why it should be criticized rather than celebrated.
First BS: The Louvre is one of the most visited places on Earth; thousands of people from everywhere pass through daily, including Nigerians and other Africans who live in or visit Paris. Plenty have probably sat down with a chessboard or phone app there without filming it. So you are most likely not the first.
Second BS: This is not climbing Everest, curing a disease, or even winning a real tournament. It's content creation with a cinematic filter, motivational voiceover, and agbada for aesthetics. There is nothing special about it.
Third BS: You are belittling the whole country because it implies that basic visibility abroad (with a camera crew) is some rare triumph for the culture, rather than just normal life for mobile people in 2025/2026. Nigerians (and Black people broadly) achieve far more concrete things daily without the hype reel. Now you make it seem like playing chess in an open museum is groundbreaking achievement in Nigeria.
While this doesn't take anything away from what you have achieved, especially for the poor kids who live in Nigeria, it displays self aggrandization and foolish puffery.
It's an embarrassment to the whole country.
You will be driving your car, pass by a young Christian man being lynched, turn your face around, drive home, pick your phone and tweet "how do you know it was muslims doing the killing?", and close your eyes to sleep peacefully.
IT WILL NOT BE WELL WITH YOU.
@CalebMutfwang please I have a question, when you lifted the curfew, what was your plan????
Bc they are back on the streets shooting and killing people.
Was that your plan?
Did you even think at all?????
Wake up an do something! Bc what they actual hell?
There is a clear reason many church leaders are numb and insensitive towards the pain and anguish of persecuted Christians. It's very simple;
They do not love Christ or His body.
They only love their religious industries, so it's just about personal profit and interest.
We have mastered the art of sending "prayer condolences" and the superficiality of offering occasional PR charity, where the social media budget supersedes the actual giving.
If early Apostles were alive today, im sure that the current happenings in our country would have influenced their epistles, sermons, and public demeanor but we are no longer surprised to see chirch leaders share pictures advertising their happy meetings with the ungodly elites in societies as well as flaunting their wealth and "cursed blessings" hours and days after events that would have led to days of national mourning in any sane society.
The Love for Christ and His body cannot be faked.
For so many church leaders, it is simply not there.
As long as "ministry is moving" who cares if the bloodshed lingers and the poor and vulnerable are afflicted?
Expect "happy Sunday service pictures" and even "church party events" organised by people who dine with wicked kings but never sympathise with Christian commoners.
I don't believe our preaching, prayers, and programs can change society.
If they haven't changed the attitude and body language of our elite and famous preachers, how can they change the ungodly and unsaved?
If those who stand behind the pulpit to "Christ", love, integrity, and righteousness are simply hirelings who are into the business of religious speech and "church empires", everything we do in the name of the Lord is actually service to self and to Satan the god of this world.
As a decent man, I understand the instinct to say “not all men.” You’re right, it’s not all men. Lol it can’t be all men.
But you grew up with women or you at least have female friends and colleagues. MOST of them have stories of sexual harassment and sometimes sexual abuse. Real and painful stories. Abuses and harassment perpetuated by who? A man.
You can’t know all these and your first reply will be “not all men”. The priority in that moment shouldn’t be “distancing yourself” from the problem, it should be listening to what’s being said and acknowledging the pattern.
Everyone knows it’s not all men. Even the women saying “all men are guilty till proven innocent” know they’re wrong. However I understand that logic as a safety/defensive mechanism when interacting with men you don’t know.
Back to the point. You don’t need to “defend men” in that moment. Lol most decent men aren’t asking you to defend them in that moment.
At the core of this barbaric practice is a fundamental disregard of women as people.
We think these are isolated incidents, cultural anomalies, aberrations. But in reality, they are not.
They are expressions of a deeper rot. This insane belief that women’s bodies are negotiable.
If you have male children, you have a SACRED task of ensuring your son not only stands solid in character, but that he is also wise and courageous to stand up to his fellow men when they say and do evil to women.
I’m so TIRED OF THIS
Stop 🛑 Stop it
The same Bible that slaveholders twisted was the Bible that empowered Frederick Douglass, Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, and countless Black preachers to fight for liberation.
Enslaved Africans did not embrace Christianity because of the whip. They embraced Christ because they saw in Him a suffering Savior who identified with their chains.
There is a difference between Christ and corrupt men.
There is a difference between doctrine and distortion.
There is a difference between the Cross and the rope.
If someone commits evil while claiming Christ, they are condemned by the very Book they claim to follow. The hypocrisy of men does not invalidate the person of Jesus.
Blaming Jesus for the sins of racists is like blaming the Constitution for politicians who violate it.
It confuses principle with abuse of principle.
History is complex.
But the objective record shows this: Christianity has been both misused by oppressors and used as the moral foundation to overthrow oppression.
The Cross is not the problem.
Sin is.
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Lagos is loud.
Busy.
Relentless.
It is a city full of ambition, faith, creativity and... deep brokenness.
And beneath all the movement is a shared human story:
we were made for God, and we have wandered far from Him.