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Matthew 24:42-44 (s/acc)

[aether @bluewdrift]

the best witchcraft i've learned is to say everything you're doing before you do it. even walking into a room. say "i'm walking into the kitchen and getting a drink," etc. after a couple of weeks, your mind has gotten used to doing what you say will happen. now your mind believes your words more and will more naturally work to make them happen.

[Nornal Guy 🧙‍♂️ @theralkia]

If you are blessed (or cursed [I like being edgy]) with an abundance of creative energy, you are naturally more prone to repression, mania, psychosis, and general neurosis.

The creative energy is the current of life itself, and a cord to the other world.

A high level of creative energy requires an equally strong physical vessel. The greater the current, the stronger the wiring must be to conduct it.

It is for this reason that highly creative people often suffer from bouts of repression. When the energy becomes too overwhelming, the vessel forces it downwards, out of consciousness, dulling the experiencer’s connection to feelings, relationships, spiritual and creative inspiration, and the function of Eros altogether. But it is a defense that is sometimes required when the vessel is not strong enough to hold the immense charge.

Another, more common, expression of this surplus of energy is the body being overtaken by it. When the charge is too great to ground into embodiment, and too great even to repress, it spills out through the body in countless unproductive ways.

Generally, those born with abundant creative energy suffer from high levels of neurosis because the psyche is constantly attempting to regulate a force that exceeds the body’s current capacity to contain it. Anxiety, compulsions, emotional volatility, obsessive thinking, and inner conflict are all ways that this energy pours out of the cracks in embodiment.

Most people also don’t realize that clumsiness, ditziness, and other such foolishness is simply the outcome of too much energy flowing through a vessel that cannot hold it. Rather than remaining grounded and integrated, it leaks into scattered attention, awkward movements, impulsivity, and a general lack of embodied presence.

Further, in the examples of psychosis and mania - the energy is simply flowing into the vessel with such intensity that the conscious observe cannot hold the charge in the uninitiated vessel. In these cases, the energy jets upwards and out of the head, ejecting the experiencer into a euphoric or dysphoric flow state, utterly dissociated from the body and thus the material world.

For those with unusually high creative energy by nature, it is essential to create a powerful, grounded vessel (masculine energy) to hold the charge. Without this pursuit, the creative idea that you were born to give birth to will never come out of you - it will forever taunt you and terrorize you from your shadows.

[🔱 YogMaya: Energy Surgeon 🔱 @CosmicShakti37]

When you ejaculate sexual energy (Sukra) without any intention, it causes Kundalini leakage and a severe spiritual fracture. Which is why, it is extremely important to preserve Ojas and protect the human energetic vessel.

Sexual fluid holds the highest concentration of Prana (life force). If it’s expelled regularly and carelessly without purpose or mindful intention it can cause leaks in your energetic body (Prana Maya Kosha). This can make your aura structurally weak and porous.

When your aura is compromised, torn, or weak, you can experience sudden energy crashes or become susceptible to psychic attacks, and entity infiltration.

Parasitic astral entities love to feed on the chaotic, low-frequency loop of cheap sexual gratification. They attach themselves directly to your Chakras, particularly the Root and Sacral chakras, making you ungrounded and draining your natural vibration.

A leaking aura also destroys and distorts your intellect (Buddhi), making it harder for you to discern between reality and illusion (Maya). This is how you become vulnerable to manipulation by external forces.

Wasting Sukra (semen/vital fluid) weakens your Venus (magnetism/creative power), Mars (vitality/control), and amplifies the negative aspects of Rahu (illusion, obsession, and addiction). A shadow aspect of Rahu-Venus is that you trade your divine magnetism for artificial pleasures, and this clouds your soul's purpose (Atmakaraka).

There is no such thing as healthy masturbation or healthy release, this is merely a coping mechanism to hide the issues associated with Ojas expulsion.

The urge to compulsively masturbate is usually an act of escape from hidden trauma, deep-seated loneliness, or lack of control over one’s impulses. You need to face that restless, uncomfortable feeling directly, rather than using a quick release to distract yourself. When you stop numbing yourself, and face your shadows you finally stop draining your life force.

Personally, I recommend practicing celibacy until you meet the right partner.

Practice Pranayama to pull the Kundalini energy upward. Methods like Kapalabhati and Mula Bandha (the root lock) can help convert raw Sukra into spiritual Ojas.

Channel your unreleased sexual fire into building a business, practicing deep meditation, creating art, intensive physical training, or mastering a creative craft. It is important to understand that sexual energy needs to be transmuted. Suppressing it leads to stagnation and disease; while conscious transmutation leads to your ascension.

Practicing celibacy makes you an energetic powerhouse. When you finally meet your match, your union will not be a draining, base exchange, but a divine and sacred experience that leads to spiritual liberation.

[🔱 YogMaya: Energy Surgeon 🔱 @CosmicShakti37]

In this post, let’s talk about WHY Your healing has stalled.

When we feel chronically overwhelmed, our immediate instinct is to look for a massive, instant solution. We want a spectacular breakthrough without the boring daily maintenance. If you find yourself practicing grounding, breathwork, or journaling for three days, getting bored, distracted or simply abandoning it because you want an "easier" route, you need to understand the mechanics of why you are stalling.

Stage 1: Why Your mind sabotages the practice (Psychology perspective)

When you drop a daily practice after a few days, it isn't because you are lazy; it is a natural neurological resistance to change. Your nervous system spent years building its current stress response. To your brain, familiar chaos feels safe, and unfamiliar discipline feels like a threat. The moment a new practice stops feeling shiny and novel, your mind actively tries to convince you that "it isn't working" just to drag you back to your old, predictable habits. If you keep abandoning your daily routines the moment they require effort, you are choosing the familiar comfort of your old stress patterns over the discomfort of growth.

Stage 2: Saturnian reality of inner peace (Energy mechanism)

You cannot bypass the structural architecture of growth. In astrology, sustainable inner peace requires a strong Saturnian container. Saturn represents time, boundaries, and the unglamorous reality of daily effort. Many people want expansive relief or spiritual bliss without building the structural foundation required to hold it. Skipping your daily grounding tools is like trying to build a roof when the concrete for the foundation hasn't even been poured. The repetitive, tedious nature of daily practice is the medicine. Saturn rewards longevity, not speed. The routines that feel boring are precisely what build the capacity to sustain true, long-term regulation.

Stage 3: How to move past the resistance (Action)

Transformation is a slow burn, not an instant spark. If you are waiting for a wave of motivation to hit you before you do your daily practices, you will be waiting forever. Discipline is about doing the practice precisely when you absolutely do not want to.

To break out of lethargy and move past the easy fix loop, you must lower the bar. Shrink the friction: commit to just two minutes of deep breathing or one paragraph of journaling. Remove the expectation of feeling healed after every session, and just show up for the structural maintenance. Make the commitment so small that your brain’s defense mechanisms don't even realize you are building discipline.

Real progress happens in the quiet choice to show up for yourself on day four, day five, and beyond.

Which stage do you find yourself getting stuck in the most?

[Armozel (Gnostic) @sonofmonad]

90% افکار شما متعلق به شما نیست. چشم انسان، امواج الکترومغناطیسی رو در محدوده طول موج تقریبی 400 تا 700 نانومتر حس میکنه. این یعنی 99 درصد تمام آنچیزی که هم اکنون اطراف شما وجود داره توسط چشم ها قابل رویت نیست. هدف بودن شما در این جهان تامین خوراک برای موجوداتیست که اطراف شما هستند. از جنس فکر هستند. فکر به شما تزریق میکنند تا موقعیت هایی رو ایجاد کنند که باعث بشه ارتعاش ذهنی شما پایین بیاد و ماده ای از چاکراهای شما نشت کنه که خوراک این موجوداته.

مثلا دارید با کسی صحبت میکنید یک دفعه فکر میکنید نکنه داره مسخرم میکنه؟ آره داره مسخرم میکنه. (در صورتی که در واقعیت اینطور نیست.)
از این مثال ها زیاد میشه آورد. افکاری که متعلق به شما نیستند مثل:

- جوابشو بده مگه ضعیفی
- میخواد حالتو بگیره، حالشو بگیر
- تقصیر فلانی بود، اون توطئه کرده برات
و و و...

الگو های تکراری رو ببینید دیگه بازی این موجودات رو نمیخورید. اونها شرایطی رو ایجاد میکنند که با "حال گیری" از شما این ماده ارزشمند خارج بشه. تا حالا از خودتون پرسیدید نقش انسان در چرخه غذایی زمین چیه؟ برای این موجودات، انسان، مثل دام هست!

[🔱 YogMaya: Energy Surgeon 🔱 @CosmicShakti37]

To understand the architecture of the matrix is to realize that Earth is not a school; it is an extractive engine. The currency is Loosh: raw, distilled emotional voltage.

But to look at this system through the lens of pure victimhood is to misunderstand how a refinery works. The entities overseeing this grid do not harvest blindly. They categorize Loosh by its structural refinement:

1. Static/Low Loosh: This is the baseline sediment: fear, panic, sudden rage, and basic physical pain. It is highly volatile, easily triggered through engineered social chaos, but it burns out quickly. It is the fast food of the astral spectrum.

2. Refined/High Loosh: This is the premium distillment. It is produced uniquely by high-vibrational, highly empathetic, and spiritually luminous beings. Pure Loosh in its unrefined form is actually creative life force, what we call unconditional love.

This is the central paradox: parasites cannot feed on pure light. Raw, uncorrupted positive energy is toxic to them. Therefore, they do not hunt you to destroy your light; they hunt you to invert it.

Highly positive individuals are spotted in the invisible spectrum like beacons in a dark field. Once targeted, the parasite attaches an antagonist, an energetic vampire, a sudden betrayal, or a tailored trauma. The goal is to force your high-voltage empathy through the meat-grinder of shock, guilt, or hyper-responsibility. The moment your pure love is compressed into agonizing heartbreak, it undergoes a chemical conversion. It becomes the most concentrated, nutrient-dense fuel available in the universe. They do not want you weak from the start; they want you glowing so the harvest is richer.

The modern spiritual trap tells you to stay in "love and light," to remain completely unarmored, and to forgive your abusers unconditionally. This is a tactical script designed to keep the processing valve wide open.

True sovereignty requires Shadow Work as an energetic containment field.

Shadow work is not a therapeutic luxury; it is occult cryptography. It is the systematic process of finding every unhealed trauma, every subconscious hook for external validation, and every blind spot where your empathy leaks out to please others. When you make your darkness conscious, you seal the perimeter. You do not stop being good; you stop being compliant.

You pull your light out of the cosmic food chain. When an entity throws an emotional spear at you to trigger a reaction, the spear drops into a void of zero response. You cease to be a node in their grid. You starve the useless demons dangling around your aura, reclaim the stolen current, and force that raw voltage inward to fund your own god-form.

[DKAstrology 🇭🇺🇯🇲🙏✨ @DKAstrology]

We are in it now. Pluto at 4°, locked into that degree. Neptune at 4° Aries, Uranus 4° Gemini, Jupiter about to move and join them to oppose Pluto. The Grand sextile we astrologers have been talking about for years.
Then, Moon will be 4 ° Leo around the 15th July, Venus reaching the same degree around 13-14th July in Virgo.
A seismic shift and induction point for future events to come, an opportunity to upgrade ourselves collectively and get rid of old outdated unworthy systems and ideas that are no longer serve humanity. The veil falls off. The "King" falls, the systems halts.
A necessary and inevitable re-evolutionary point.
A quantum jump in our human evolutionary course. We can not waste this rare energetical window of opportunity, have to make a stand for all that is right on our planet.🙏🌺

[🕊️ @lichthauch]

God honors his favorites by crushing them, drops the whole insufferable wretched weight of purpose on their spines until they either snap into shape or snap entirely. the unburdened, those buoyant grinning vapid little phantoms drifting through their own lives without a single crushing thing to carry, they are forgotten

[BROTHER LOBO 🐺⚔️ @ellobosalvaje]

The more favored you are by God the harsher and more immediate your correction when you stray from what you're supposed to be doing. I've watched this enough times in my own life to know its not a coincidence. The average man can wander off course for years before consequence catches up. The man who has been given a meaningful mission doesn't have that grace period.

[Jonathan Louis Dent @jonathanldent]

Venus and Jupiter come together today in Cancer. Good day to honor and connect to the matriarchs within your lineage, to the Divine Mother, to the land and to bodies of water.

If you can get to a river or ocean, bring offerings. Fruits / your prayers are always welcome.

[𝔭𝔯𝔲𝔡𝔢𝔫𝔠𝔢 𝔯𝔦𝔠𝔥𝔪𝔬𝔫𝔡「🌲❤️‍🔥」🏴‍☠️ @BIMBOSATTVA_]

Men have absolutely no idea what the majority of good women find attractive. The world is not a fucking MMO, you cannot min/max. Height? Income? Women are fucking psychic bro, they don't care about the color of your tailfeathers.

Coked up degenerates in religious psychosis get laid or have more loving relationships than you because that freak is living from his own center. You aren't. It does not matter that it is destructive or insane. It is his destruction, his own insanity. He is free and untamed, you do tricks learned from 4chan, Reddit, Tumblr, Discord, and whatever other nonsensical hive of rejects like a crippled circus elephant. Just be yourself. Just, be, yourself. In Buddhism there is a concept of the 'original face', it is who you were before you were born, before anything was imprinted on you, before you inherited all of the karma of circumstances. Most men walk around a compartmentalized mess wondering why they feel like they are going crazy, wondering why creating more masks don't seem to resolve their misery. The drug addict, the criminal, the schizo, the artist, they've at least glimpsed at their original face, even if through a cracked mirror. That 'glimpse', that's 'it'. That's swag. Women are not attracted to confidence. They are attracted to those who exist, who inhabit reality, their own reality, not just a mirage that is shambled through whilst following another person's script. The norse concept is called 'hamingja', the power that radiates from people when they are aligned with their fate, their doom, their wyrd. It was said to be impossible to fake, it was the electricity of one who had found their true wyrd and was living it unashamedly. Warriors would switch sides midbattle to follow someone with stronger hamingja, women do the same thing.

What makes Achilles attractive is that he chose his own life, his own dharma, over a long an mediocre one. This is what women are attracted to. It is not that his life was glorious and that he was great, that is merely a consequence of him following his dharma. The Greeks called this 'thumos', the part of the soul that desires recognition and autonomy. Contemporary society destroys this in men, and it is a great shame, replacing it with domesticated "good behavior".

Imagine two guys, both NEETs

"I don't work because I don't want to"
"I don't work and I hate myself for it"

The first one has 'it', the latter does not.

a man being submissive bc it turns him on = alpha
a man being submissive cus he has emotional issues and feels bad = cringe and beta
a man who is not working cus he doesnt want to work = alpha
a man who is not working and feels like a failure cus of it = beta idiot
an ugly man who doesnt give a fuck and owns it = alpha
an ugly man who cares about it and is clearly insecure = into the mines
like a man who slaves away bc he wants to get enough money to cash out = alpha
a man who slaves away bc thats just how he was raised and slaving away gives him a sense of worth = beta idiot

Men struggle with realizing that women are attracted to internal motivations not external realities
you can have 100 men and on paper they're all the same but 50 are internalized and 50 are externalized and women will overwhelmingly go for the ones who are internalized even if you made it like so the internalized men are less wealthy and less attractive. You can be the most submissive effeminate man in the world and still have big dick alpha mode energy if its because YOU want it. You can be broke, ugly, awkward, whatever, that which is authentically yours will work without effort. Sure some people wont like you, in fact many people might not, but this increases the quality, you get someone who will love you authentically, and will not grow disappointed with you. The second you're doing ANYTHING because of some external pressure, because someone told you this is what women want. You're already fucked dawg. You're gone. You're a spirit. And women can see spirits. Most men these days have "the sickness unto death", they are so fucking alienated that they have become hungry ghosts, walking dead. That's most men these days, and we all know it to be true. Women evolved for millions of years to detect genetic fitness, you think they cannot smell spiritual rot? That uncanny feeling they get around you is their soul recognizing that you don't have one.

The "nice guy" is not nice, it is a simulacrum of niceness because he believes courtesy to be currency. When the social vending machine doesn't dispense pussy for masturbation, he rages, and post about how women are evil online. An actual nice person is nice because that is who they are. Women are keen about this difference, they can tell, they've likely been dealing with creepy freaks their entire lives.

You -want- it to be about your height, your jaw, your money, your dick size because deep inside you know that those absolve you of responsibility, it lets you tell the story of "its not my fault". Oh, but it is your fault. Yet this hurts, you cannot admit that you've been spiritually neutered by society and you're walking around like an NPC following dialogue trees and working on algebraic logic. That would mean you need to actually do something hard, that means that you need to dig your soul out from the shallow grave that you shot it into. Most men are doing all of these assortment of things for reasons that are not their own, working jobs they hate for approval they do not even want, being nice to avoid conflict, lifting weights because internet man told them to, every single move calculated for external validation. You are the last man! Comfortable, safe, optimized for intra-male social approval, and completely spiritually castrated. "We have invented happiness" you say, yet women yearn for Zarathustra, for the one who creates his own world. This is why every girl has a story about falling for some insane artist or musician who lived in a van. He may have been bonkers, sure, but he was ALIVE!

Wanna know why artists musicians druggies and criminals can find love and you cannot? It is not because women are stupid or that they love suffering and danger. It is because those men, despite all of their flaws, are living from their own center, and that is the single most attractive thing to many women that a man can do. They see the -potential- in them, where those who are successful on paper yet have no -potential- lack. One would be able to survive apocalypse, the women thinks, the other would not. Those men's destructive lifestyles are authentic, your safe lifestyle is performative. Tristian and Isolde did not fall in love because Tristian was a good provider or that he was tall and handsome, though he very well may have been, they drank a love potion, but what was the potion really to us? The dissolution of social identity. They were no longer knight and queen, just raw meeting raw. That is what women want, not the social role you are playing, but what happens when all those roles dissolve. Tristian chose love and death over a safe life. That choice echoes in the blood of every woman.

A jobless philosopher who genuinely does not give a fuck about money is infinitely more attractive than an insecure beta banker who hates his life but likes his stupid BMW. The philosopher owns his reality, the banker is owned by it. Diogenes lived in a clay pot and told Alexander the Great to go fuck himself, and yet Alexander himself said "If I were not I, I would want to be Diogenes". Women understand the difference between authentic power over performed power.

Women are not attracted to what you have, they're attracted to why you have it. They can smell the difference between:

money earned from passion vs money earned from fear
muscles built from joy vs muscles built from insecurity
kindness from love vs kindness from manipulation
intelligence deployed freely vs intelligence performed for approval

Every woman has PhD in reading the gap between who you are and who you are pretending to be. The only person you are fooling is yourself. This is evolutionary, for millions of years picking the wrong mate meant death, not only for her, but her offspring as well. Women have been equipped with exquisite detection for the difference between real strength and performed strength, real resources and borrowed ones, real protection and fake bravado. Their ancestors who could not tell the difference aren't anyone's ancestors because they never reproduced. The ones left are survivors who can smell authenticity like sharks smell blood.

"She's trying to change me" No you fucking moron, she sees your potential and she loves you. When you're just hunting, women love your chaos. When they love you, they want you alive and healthy, you've already passed the mate fitness ritual, you're in, for now. Men who cannot handle this are simply telling on themselves, they only process relationships as zero sum power struggles because they've never experienced real love and care. Read the fucking Iliad. When Achilles loses Patroclus he crashes the fuck out. Sobbing screaming refusing to eat. The greatest warrior who ever lived we are told this. Yet this reveals something inherently true, real strength includes the capacity for authentic and radical vulnerability. You can only be wrecked by loss if you were grounded in the first place. Modern men are so defended against pain that they've become defended against love.

Women want to know you could be a thing. Could. Not that you are one, not even that you are trying to be one. Just that the potential exists, latent, in your being. That if the world needed it, if -she- needed it, you could rise. Why do women still love Genghis Khan 800 years later? Read his biography. Orphaned, enslaved, betrayed, left for dead. He had every right to be the world's ultimate doomer, your life is not even a fraction as terrible as his was. He said fuck karma and rewrote history. He did not start trying to conquer the world though, his conquest began with his conquest of surviving on his own terms, his conquest was merely what happens when someone with infinite will meets infinite opposition. Women smell that potential in you, and its absence.

You must have what in Buddhism is called the 'beginner's mind', a mind with no preconceptions. Every women is unconsciously asking "If civilization collapsed could this man create his own place or would he just die?" This hypothetical reveals who is running on their own power versus those who have simply plugged themselves into the social matrix. It is not possible to fake potential, you cannot perform it. It either exists because you've maintained your inner light, or it doesn't because you try so hard to be what others want you to be.

Stop asking "what do women want". Ask yourself, "what do I want". And I mean really, really want. Not what you think you should want, not what you are programmed to want, not what would impress your parents, strangers on the internet, or your friends. What do YOU want? Most of you have truly no fucking clue. You're attracted to women who look like instragram or tiktok girls because that is what you are supposed to want, you're pursuing careers that make you want to kill yourself because that is just how life is. You are performing a veneer of confidence because that is how people online said it works. Sartre called this nonsense "bad faith" pretending that you have no choice either which way to avoid the even more terrifying responsibility of freedom. Every "I have to" or "I must" is a lie you tell to yourself. You could choose to be homeless tomorrow, pursue your passion, but you do not, our of fear, which is fine, but stop pretending like it is not a choice, it is a choice, one that you are actively making every single day. Women sense bad faith like animals may sense earthquakes, both relate to fundamental structural instability.

Be real or die. Not real like "bro I'm just being honest" when you're being a dick. Real like aligned, grounded, centered, integrated. Real like your outside matches your inside and your actions reveals your desires. In the past they used to say that when a man's wordhoard was misaligned from his deedhoard that they would lose their wyrd, and with that, their luck. Most men's words and deeds are completely disconnected to the point where the majority of men may have a stronger case of DID than most people online saying they have it. You say you want adventure but choose security, you say you value freedom but build cages to live in. This disconnect is what makes you invisible to others, you're not whole and thus cannot be seen. Your careful externally maintained sanity is likely the most insane thing about you.

Let me be clear, we've been talking about 'what women want' but this is not about women, this is about being a fucking human being, about being alive. This is about YOU. The women part is just what naturally happens when you decide to stop being a ghost and step into being a human.

[Naida | Inscendence @OInscendence]

Addiction/substance abuse/compulsive behaviour is passion (suffering) for the Divine. A self-destructive person is ready to meet his/her god because the greatest obstacle (fear of pain/death) is already obliterated. It is the self-preserving that is stuck in their grave.

[Ellie @basilYam]

This is partly why I believe healthy people don’t really like being around unhealthy people, but unhealthy people realllllyyyy wanna be around healthy ones

The healthy people are naturally calming and settling to other people’s nervous systems while unhealthy people are the opposite. They will unsettle and disturb. They will unconsciously try to take from you. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, sometimes I like being unsettled and disturbed, but most of the time I don’t

A person has to be incredibly boundaried to be around unhealthy people without being affected by them. If u try to get involved w unhealthy people before ur ready you’ll get eaten alive. They won’t “intend” to do it but they will do it. It’s self-protective to be discerning

[Guy @nosilverv]

A well-ordered mind immanentizes order all around it, in the real world.

A disordered mind does the same, but for chaos.

Funny how that works.

[siddhi devī🌹 @shreemastrology]

If you’re uncomfortable with uncertainty you will never love/be loved romantically, never surrender to God and never actually live a full life. All of your life becomes a grand performance and submission to the certainty that is cruel and can turn on you because God loves a good comedy.

[thermo @DionysianAgent]

the easiest way to test someone's character is to see how they react to kindness and correction

a person who takes kindness and love as a sign of weakness - is a weak person themselves internally with a minimal capacity for love, they will likely think in more rigid binary terms of exploitation like abuser vs victim, viewing kindness and love as a victim mentality - a reflection of their true internal state where they are a victim of some kind and feel weak, which is why they over compensate and despise anything they view as weakness or victimhood as it is a projection of their internal dysfunction

a person who takes correction as an attack rather than knowledge to integrate - is a person with an extremely fragile ego, to them they will view all information outside of their subjective understanding of reality as a threat, they will take corrections and inputs as insults (no matter how good intended) - they will also be driven deeply by envy and jealousy, often viewing others as competition and feeling a constant need to compare themselves to others - they'll also display undertones of extreme pettiness, taking offense to things that weren't even offensive as their fragile ego will frequently get triggered

the two things often go hand in hand, and lead to a person that struggles to ever attain true love or romantic depth as they themselves are incapable of achieving the depth and surrender required for it

they'll also subtly degrade others around them with passive aggressive remarks and platitudes that make the others seem less valuable than them in some sense

they will struggle and fail completely at being a truly genuine person, they will mimic what they think it's supposed to look like but there will always be a layered disconnect between their true internal self and the embodied being - everything they write and say is prepared carefully and thought of from the perspective of others

they will be extremely focused on their image, never doing or saying anything that would be embarrassing for them, often trying to create an image of control and ensuring others view them the way they want to be seen rather than the way they truly internally are

they will struggle with 'negativity' often viewing any form of negative expression as volatile and telling others they can't stand negativity, while ironically being an extremely negative person themselves (although the negativity is usually more indirect and layered and passive aggressive) - this again being a reflection of their internal fragile state where they seek validation and approval and view negative emotions in others as some form of weakness they don't want to tolerate

they'll fail at truly reading the opposite sex
- as a man they'll probably be attracted to very feminine low iq trad wives who they can manipulate and control and are too dumb to realize their flaws, they will especially prefer dumb women as intelligent women will scare them as they're afraid of being truly seen

- as a woman they'll probably be attracted to overly masculine silent stoic types that they can manipulate and boss around, they'll usually fail greatly at understanding the masculine psyche in depth and revert to the binary rigid framework of evaluating men, something that causes them to fail completely at seeing which men are frauds and which are genuine and integrated (the incapacity being a reflection of their own inner fraudulence in a sense)

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they can fool others, but to a trained eye the tells are easy to spot

to a real sight enjoyer like me it's trivial, i spot their behaviorisms from a mile away, usually i pretend i don't see it though to keep them oblivious from the dynamic of me seeing them, because if i told them that i see and understand all these dynamics straight away then they would just view me as an enemy attacking them

but if i do meet one and somehow happen to feel care for them, then i'll usually try to help them, try to disengage their ego, try to give them advice or tips - but sadly it's often very hard to ever get through to these types of people because they are so entrenched in their fragile ego that they view advice as an attack and sympathetic gestures as weakness

[SultanAlmaadeed.com @Almaadeed]

GAMESHIRE BATHAWAY $GME

[Paul @ZeitvilleMedia]

A client asked:

"Why do you say Pluto isn't a moral planet?"

Pluto only cares about your evolution. Even if that means breaking your boundaries.

He will make you inherit parental karma and experience their unfulfilled dreams.

Not fair but Pluto uses it to wake up your power!

[Lauren @buridansridge]

For competitive individuals who have been wronged, the best way to get out of a rut is not to plot revenge, but to win so hard that your very trajectory, brute-force tenacity, and sheer indomitable propulsion inspire all those who know you. Vengeance is a cage, for it narrows vision and thus limits your becoming. The best way to win is to keep showing up relentlessly for yourself and to set a standard that generates such invigorating momentum that you embody the energetic contrast that awakens the drive in others to rise beyond their current state.