You do not have to hate someone to stop choosing them. You do not have to turn love into anger just to justify leaving. Sometimes the quietest truth is enough: this hurts, and I am tired.
being able to call on and depend on a man is a flex, IN MY OPINION! i mean yes i can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because Im supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me.
Every time a man hears the word "provide," they think it's all about money. But you still need to provide honesty, love, trust, and a safe space for her to be vulnerable and feminine.
Don't forget that.
I really want us to eliminate the idea that just because someone is family, we are supposed to give them more grace and subject ourselves to their negative behavior. The notion that I’m expected to compromise my boundaries simply because we are related is absolutely insane.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.