I say this to my kids all the time. Do it for the plot. Do it for the story. Tell yourself if it all goes wrong it will just be a funny story. Ironically job interviews, dates, and public speaking go better anyway if you're just happy to be there and not overthinking it!!
Your emergency fund should 1000000% be in a hysa. I literally shop around every 6 months for a bank offering a higher interest rate than the current one and will switch. Currently with CIT bank though
List of things to include in a prenup as a woman
Compensation for career sacrifice
Infidelity clauses
Protection of premarital assets
Protection from partner’s debt
Spousal support/alimony terms
Stay-at-home parent protections
Division of marital property
Business ownership protection
Retirement and pension protection
Inheritance protection
Real estate protections
Child-related financial expectations
Household labor recognition
Lifestyle and financial management clauses
Insurance requirements
Protection for future businesses or side hustles
Digital and intellectual property rights
Relocation and immigration protections
Honestly ,
Having large amounts of money, just sitting in a checking account is not a flex at all. It’s just sitting there, it’s not doing anything for you.