Sometimes you gotta remind people… I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
Here's how long a 30 year mortgage takes to pay off:
– No extra payments = 30 years
– 1 extra payment each year = 25 years
– 2 extra payments each year = 21 years
– 3 extra payments each year = 18 years
– 6 extra payments each year = 13 years
– 12 extra payments each year = 8 years
This MRI study on young kids just exposed something terrifying:
They scanned the brains of 60 children aged 3–5 — including 5-year-old Rose — and found interactive screen time is causing measurable loss of white matter in their developing brains. Even just 2 hours a day is linked to impaired neural connectivity, language, and literacy development.
Professor Mike Nagel (neuroscientist and father) said his first reaction was simply: “Wow… I was not anticipating seeing anything like that.”
We’re physically changing children’s brains before they even start school — and the damage is visible on scans.
This one actually unsettled me. I’ve always suspected too much screen time was bad, but seeing real white matter loss in toddlers hits different.
Parents of little ones — has this kind of research changed how much screen time you allow?
HOW TO READ ANYONE:
1. Status - revealed by their shoes.
2. Discipline - revealed by their nails.
3. Background - revealed by how they sit.
4. Intentions - revealed by their eyes.
5. Personality - revealed by how they laugh.
6. Confidence - revealed by how they walk.
7. Loyalty - revealed by where they look.
8. Intelligence - revealed by how they listen.
9. Maturity - revealed by how they argue.
10. Respect - revealed by how they treat people who can't help them.
Just found out that butterflies can't even see their own wings & that got me thinking... most people don't even recognize their true beauty, how much they've grown & evolved 🥺!
Easter reminds us that what feels like defeat is not always final.
The pain, the waiting, the silence it all has purpose.
The cross was heavy.
The tomb was real.
But so was the resurrection.
A minha parte favorita da Bíblia é quando Jesus ressuscita e volta para reencontrar os discípulos e ngm o reconhece. Ele não voltou com um corpo desfigurado pela crucificação, mas com um corpo glorioso. Que todos que te viram ferido, te encontrem curado, iluminado, magnífico.
13 TYPES OF INTELLIGENCE:
- Linguistic = Thinks in words, loves language, writes and speaks with natural precision
- Logical = Thinks in patterns, drawn to numbers, systems, and cause-and-effect
- Spatial = Thinks in images, navigates the world visually, sees what others miss in structure
- Musical = Hears patterns in sound, feels rhythm as a language of its own
- Kinesthetic = Thinks through the body, learns by doing, not by reading or listening
- Interpersonal = Reads people effortlessly, understands what others feel before they say it
- Intrapersonal = Deeply self-aware, understands their own motivations better than anyone around them can
- Naturalist = Reads the natural world the way others read books, sees systems in everything living
- Existential = Sits comfortably with the biggest questions most people spend their lives avoiding
- Creative = Connects things that have never been connected before and calls it obvious afterward
- Practical = Turns ideas into reality while everyone else is still talking about them
- Emotional = Feels deeply, processes experience richly, and understands the human condition from the inside
- Street Smart = Learns faster from experience than any classroom ever produced
1. Men know exactly what they are doing. Always remember that.
2. It is not your responsibility to change a man. In fact, you cannot change a man, but you can change the man. Read that again.
3. Men will treat you based on how they feel about you and how you carry yourself. If he’s not treating you with care, he doesn’t like you. Don’t make excuses for him.
4. No man can go a day without talking to a woman he is in love with.
5. An inconsistent man doesn’t like you. Only showing up when it is convenient for him is a red flag 🚩
6. There is no such thing as a nonchalant man. That man doesn’t like you. He’s “chalanting” elsewhere.
7. If a man cheats on you and you find out, and instead of leaving the relationship you choose to stay, he will start seeing you as a foól.
8. Your self-respect must be greater than your feelings and libido. Do not ever beg a man to love you. Begging is disgusting.
9. Men are very thoughtful when they are in love. They make time, plan things, and put effort where their heart is. A low-effort man doesn’t like you.
10. The highest form of love is consideration. Any man who doesn’t consider you, how his actions make you feel, or how to make your life easier within his capacity doesn’t like you. Walk away.
11. Lastly, you accept the love you think you deserve. However a man treats you, if you stay, you are a willing participant, not a victim. If you think you deserve better, you know exactly what to do.
DNA is really so crazy. Have y’all heard that story about the woman who had a baby with her husband, but when he got a DNA test, it said he wasn’t the father? The mother insisted he was the dad, so they repeated the test multiple times, and it kept saying the same thing. It later came out that, based on the DNA results, he wasn’t the father… but the uncle of the child. Which made no sense because he was an only child. After more extensive testing, they discovered the husband was actually a chimera, meaning he had absorbed his twin in the womb and carried two sets of DNA. So basically… the baby was biologically his twin brother’s child, even though he was the one who fathered it.