I used to think making a woman orgasm was all about stamina.
One day, a girl I was dating told me I spend too much time trying to impress her and not enough time paying attention to her.
That comment changed everything.
The next time we linked up, I made sure there was a vibrator and I stopped worrying about looking experienced and started focusing on her comfort, her reactions, and what she actually enjoyed, foreplay, hardcore or soft and slow thrusting while placing the vibrator on her clit. I listened more, communicated more, and stopped rushing.
Afterwards, she smiled and said,
“That was the fastest it's ever happened for me.”
That's when I realised something:
The fastest way isn't usually a secret technique. It's making a woman feel comfortable, desired, understood, and paying attention to what she likes instead of assuming every woman is the same.