@OroroWasHere@najafius@durianelectra@ChrisKaue@lunytoonss@missavaaxo @hudconoisseur Totally! Sorry I wasn't trying to downplay position by using the word preference. I'm autistic so I tend to read into stuff a little too much. I totally get not having sex you don't want to! It was the idea that bottoms could not make out at all that was confusing to me.
@najafius@durianelectra@OroroWasHere@ChrisKaue@lunytoonss@missavaaxo @hudconoisseur Thank you for your insight! I grew up hearing many gay men emphasize how top/bottom labels were ONLY about preferred position and not akin to sub/dom roles. So I was wondering if there has been a change in general mindset.
@najafius@durianelectra@OroroWasHere@ChrisKaue@lunytoonss@missavaaxo @hudconoisseur So is it more that you don't prefer to do those things with someone you aren't going to have full sex with? Or is it more like sub/dom practices where you are expected to act a certain way because of your role?
@najafius@durianelectra@OroroWasHere@ChrisKaue@lunytoonss@missavaaxo @hudconoisseur And like you should only do things you prefer! It's just as a lesbian i don't understand how another bottom couldn't jack you off? Or why two bottoms can't make out? Could two tops jack eachother off or do all sexual acts have to have a top & bottom? It's so different