Lo & behold the Nigerian dream. "I better pass my neighbor." Classism. I get car, other people no get. I carry car go NYSC camp, I dey chill for my car while others dey parade ground. I wear NYSC uniform, you never wear am. A society of slaves and imbecils. Individualistic classists.
Mutual ghosting>>>>>
No questions asked, no fights, no hard conversations, just mutually agreed silence & occasionally viewing each other’s stories.
You people are waiting for a woman to send an email of Rejection or Letter of Rejection before you walk. Wait well o. Don’t use your tongue and count your teeth o.
Once a woman shows you signs that she’s no longer into you, let her go immediately.
You can never love a woman into loving you.
So stop trying.
Once you notice those early signs of rejection from her, walk away, or disaster awaits you.