They just bitched out to them by saying "OH WE DON'T LIKE BEING PART OF HIS COMMUNITY WE ARE SO GREST LIKE FUCK HIM@!!" like how the hell I can be postive and non-toxic if stuff like this is happening.
Take a made-up example. A colleague stops by on Friday: "could you look at my slides over the weekend?" You've said yes before they finish the sentence.