When you start loving yourself, life starts loving you. By keeping your vibration high, you will attract more opportunities and blessings in your life.
You can a be kind person.
And still ...
-- say No
--set boundaries
-- disagree with people
--make mistakes
--stand up for yourself
--can't tolerate dominance
-- Protect your time and space
Th world starts and ends entirely inside your mind. No matter where you end up, no matter how rich or successful you are, you won't able to enjoy any of it, if you get there at the expense of your Mental Health.
Some people will never ask for your side of the story. Because the side of the story they heard fits the description of how they want to feel about you.