“black girls have a smaller dating market”, “black girls are less desirable”, etc stuff has never moved me bc i know im attractive, i know black girls are attractive and since i dont need to date everyone, ppl unattracted to me don’t matter
It’s too many people fed up wit the opposite gender but won’t stop dating.
You just on people’s phones and faces revenge dating and trying to catch all the games and plays, projecting your fear. How bout just sit this out until you’re ready to operate with an open heart? lol
While no relationship is perfect and they all come with ups and downs, lying, manipulating, cheating and abuse aren’t acceptable downs. Why would you even want that to be a part of your love story ? That’s not something you can or should even want to overcome
I think what is scarier than loose boundaries is confronting the part of you that is easily accessible, forgiving and understanding - cause, roles reversed? The person you're constantly letting back in would NEVER offer you the same compassion and you know that.
So, why?
At the end of the day, the government is responsible for all of this. They watched this situation brew over the years. The instigators also have a lot to answer for. They capitalized on people's valid concerns.
SOUTH AFRICA HAS QUALIFIED TO THE KNOCKOUT STAGES OF THE FIFA FUCKIN WORLD CUP IN MY LIFETIME 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
The hate we’re getting from the rest of the world obviously hurts and it’s upsetting ‘cause we’re not all xenophobic losers. But that’s what we deserve considering recent events. You can call me ‘unpatriotic’, it’s true. I love SA but I also know the dangers of patriotism.