@lady_valor_07 10% would be$50. $40 in my opinion for a “group” is not enough. I don’t think servers should expect a certain amount. You should be grateful for whatever you get and hopefully if server does a good job they will get better tips than you gave.
This isn’t racist. If DEI wasn’t “a thing” and you saw a black pilot you wouldn’t wonder if he was qualified you would know he was hired because he is a good pilot. But when you make companies hire people based on race or whatever it is assumed that the person was hired due to the race. Black people don’t need DEI. They are able to achieve greatness without it.