People pointing out your dysfunctional patterns and asking for basic human respect is not an attack or an attempt to use you as a scapegoat. Own your shit and change your ways. EVERYBODY can’t be the problem .
There’s nothing in the world that i want more than a healthy relationship w/my mom & biological dad but there are things that i’m not willing to accept from them anymore. My love is healthy & SAFE. If i’m trying to be the healthiest version of myself to show up for you then i deserve that in return.