I love this Temi and Eazy marriage dynamic so much because unlike most misclass and poor backgrounds
Temi’s parents “The Otedola’s” understand the concept and dynamics of love and marriage, love is never enough to keep the flames burning
P:s This tweet is not just about Temi
25 Things Everybody should know by Common Sense :
1. Never Call someone on video call without their permission.
2. When you visit someone, don’t stay longer than necessary.
3. When you see someone you know from a distance, don’t start shouting their name.
4. When you admire something, in someone’s home don’t ask them to give you. They bought it because they liked it too.
5. When you are in a public transport, don’t peep at someone’s phone.
6. If you find a public toilet clean, leave it clean for the next person.
7. When someone borrows you money, don’t wait for them to ask you to pay back.
8. Never end a call, when you’re not the one who called.
9. Don’t eat the last piece of what you did not buy.
10. Don’t visit people unannounced.
11. Don’t start scrolling through someone’s phone when they give it to you, to see a photo.
12. Don’t ask someone why they’re not married yet or why they don’t have kids.
13. Don’t pick your nose or spit in public.
14. Don’t be too proud to say sorry or thank you when needed.
15. When you pick an item in someone’s home, put it right back where you found it.
16. Don’t play loud music i public spaces without considering other people.
17. Dont take videos or pictures of people without their permission.
18. When you visit someone, don’t criticize their house, food, or belongings.
19. Don’t borrow someone’s item and return it when damaged or dirty.
20. Don’t read someone’s messages when their phone is near you
21. If you’re guest somewhere, respect the rules of that home.
22. Don’t force your opinions on everyone, people think differently.
23. Don’t ask personal questions when you barely know someone.
24. Don’t interrupt someone while they’re speaking, wait for your turn to talk.
25. If someone is wearing something you love, compliment them instead of demanding to have it.
There’s an AI blackboard which turns human handwriting into live graphs and 3D models. This technology is already available for teachers to use in 60,000 schools across China.
In nigeria, teachers are using chalk on a board and they don’t even have chalk to use in some schools.
Your private moments should stay private.
If your nudes or videos ever get leaked, you don’t have to live with the anxiety forever.
There’s a simple and effective way to wipe them completely off the internet.
I wish more people knew about this sooner.
👉 https://t.co/kauA0tcgGE
I am like other girls.
Infact, I’m worse than other girls.
I’m a wicked woman.
I’m not wife material.
I don’t believe in submission
I don’t believe in cooking or cleaning for a man
I don’t believe in feminine energy and soft voices.
I do not perform for male validation.
We both started laughing. Then we both started crying.
Neither of us got to surprise the other but somehow, we ended up sharing the surprise together.
Looking back now, I don't think we could've planned a better beginning to our little family's story.
He reached into the dresser, pulled out the pregnancy test...
Then quickly shook his head.
"I wasn't snooping, I was looking for my watch when I saw it and i put it back exactly where I found it because I knew you were planning to surprise me."
Then he held up the baby socks again and whispered "I just wanted to surprise you too."
A disagreement at 2PM doesn't cancel dinner at 6PM. A lot of people treat conflict like it erases the love in a relationship.
One disagreement happens and suddenly kindness disappears, effort, communication, and now you have two people acting like enemies.
If you decide to have children, that's okay.
If you decide not to have children, that's okay.
If you always wanted children but life had other plans, that's okay.
If you change your mind, that's okay.
If you become a mother later in life, that's okay.
If motherhood isn't part of your dream, that's okay.
If you choose to focus on your career, your passions, or yourself, that's okay.
If your path looks different from everyone else's, that's okay.
It's your life.
Your body.
Your future.
Just a friendly reminder because social media will have you confused.
- Men need women.
- Women need men.
- 50/50, 100/0, 70/30 is cool - DO YOU!
- A cheater will cheat on anyone.
- Being single is fine if you're happy.
- There is nothing wrong with a 9-5.
- Health is wealth.
- Social Media is not real.
I want to show you how to find a client tonight.
Go to https://t.co/HXGE109w38. It's one of my favorite websites because it shows startups that have recently raised funding.
Why does that matter?
Because funded startups are more likely to have the budget to hire.
Instead of chasing broke founders, target companies that have money to grow.
From there, find the founders or team members on LinkedIn, start engaging with their content, and build a genuine connection before reaching out.
Comment "JOBS" if you want me to show you how to find their email addresses and write outreach that actually gets replies.
‘Building a brand online is for poor people who are looking for money’
Have you stopped to ask yourself why Billionaires, their kids, successful business professionals, corporate professionals and business brands are showing up online everyday?
Why will Elumelu show up on SM every day?
What are the Otedola’s doing online?
Why are top brands like Coke, Apple, Redbull, Amazon etc. online with millions of followers and still building?
Because they get it!
Whoever controls the attention, controls the market.
This place is nothing more than a market place, get discovered, known, liked and trusted and your reach becomes leverage for more.
They teach girls to hold their keys between their fingers.
Share their location.
Watch their drinks.
Change their routes.
What exactly are they teaching boys?
All those talk about geh geh spoiling people’s marriage is trash. You swallowed all his teachings hook, like and sinker because you already hate Nigerian women, you just needed someone to validate your thoughts.
Geh Ghe understood that, he gave you what you wanted as you gave him the fame he wanted and even your money. It was a perfect trade. Now sit down.
If you’re a creative woman with multiple ideas, who feels deeply and follows her intuition, I’m going to say this with love… YOU NEED STRUCTURE.
Your gifts need somewhere to go.
If you’ve been applying to graduate trainee roles and keep getting rejections, you’re probably doing something wrong. Here’s how to fix it – Lady explains.
Never in this country. Wait for those that will tell you" it's a man's world", women cannot operate like men, different standards apply to men and women, etc. The double standards are near funny to watch that is why most men are shell shocked every time it happens.
Men need to understand that:
*Virgin women also would love a virgin man. Both pure when they come together.
* Women also drool over 6 pack, tall, dark/fair, handsome men, including married women. Women appreciate rich/handsome men but their self control and commitment keeps most women in check, not societal conditioning, or gender expectations. You think women do not notice and appreciate handsome men, even when married? They are married, not dead. Unlike men, they choose to control their urges.
*All those gender insultive words to shame women into not being sexual beings are no longer effective. Ashawo, nymphomaniac have no male versions.
These days women don't care. Men are only shocked when the evidence of women's hyper sexuality (child for another man while married) happens. Then they start visiting radio stations and podcasts, wailing. Women want fidelity. Women want sexual fulfillment, not the one reserved for side chicks. Women want to be taken out on dates once a while, not left at home saddled with kids and domestic labour day in day out. Women want to feel sexy and romantic with their husbands without bring accused of being 'spoilt' when they tell their husbands how they want it. Men will continue to be surprised. 🤣