The goal is to avoid threats by all means. Since you see men as a threat, I respect your decision to stay away from relationships with men. You don’t fancy having children and you don’t have them. I respect that too.
But please, extend the same respect to women who desire marriage, relationships and children. Allow them to pursue the life they want in peace, just as you have chosen the life you want for yourself.
You are 40, unmarried and have children. That’s absolutely fine because it’s your choice. But not every woman has to make the same choices you have made.
A woman who can conceive naturally will hardly choose IVF without a reason. As regards domestic violence, there is no evidence establishing that she died from either IVF complications or domestic violence. She wanted children, and she pursued that desire.
I’ve also seen single women die from fibroids and other reproductive health complications. Reproductive health challenges do not discriminate based on marital status.
Now that you are in your 40s, can you honestly say you have built yourself to your own satisfaction? Everyone has a different timeline and priorities. Let’s not impose our choices on others.
I have stopped condemning people based on hearing only one side of a story. The deceased bore the title “Mrs,” and her husband signed the funeral arrangements. Yet you expect me to condemn her husband without knowing the full circumstances? I refuse to be that senseless or allow emotions to override reason.
Wait until you are 35 before you can marry
If a woman is 18 or older and decides to get married, that is entirely her choice. She is an adult and should be allowed to make that decision for herself.
Besides, even women in their 40s and beyond can become victims of domestic violence. Age alone does not guarantee protection from an abusive marriage.
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Because I have seen women openly discussing their relationships
Because it is common for men to prefer women who are virgins or have low body counts
I don’t know what women want, and I won’t presume to speak on their behalf or dictate their choices. So, perhaps you should tell us what you women actually want.
@daraaaao I’m moving the discussion elsewhere?
You took it from premarital sex to virginity, now to rape 😂😂😂😂
Yet, I’m the one moving the discussion around😂😂
Ok nah
@daraaaao 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Read my comment again
Haven't seen couple go for a virginity test 😂😂
When a man makes love to a virgin, he will meet an intact or partial hymen.