You can’t punish avoidants wit non contact. You gotta grab em by da neck like a pitbull puppy and say “Stop fuckin playin wit me” through clenched teeth.
inconsistency should be rewarded with unavailability. no paragraphs, no yelling, no lashing out. i am literally starlight in human form. sweetheart me or bye.
You need 3 daily wins:
A physical win:
Walking, running, lifting, swimming..
A mental win:
Reading, writing, creating, learning..
A spiritual win:
Praying, meditating, studying, growing..
Be a complete winner!
Let’s pray:
Heavenly Father,
As I come to the end of this month of November, I pause and look back on everything these past weeks have carried. There were moments that stretched me, moments that tested me, and moments that surprised me. Yet through it all, You kept me.
Father, I release everything in November that was heavy:
every disappointment,
every frustration,
every delay,
every unanswered question,
every emotional weight I’ve been holding onto. I refuse to take November’s burdens into the next month. Father, seal this month with Your glory.
Finish what needs to be finished.
Heal what needs to be healed.
Restore what needs to be restored.
And remove whatever cannot go with me into a new season. Let the final days of November usher in unexpected blessings, quiet breakthroughs, and signs that You are still working in my story. Cover me.
And carry me forward.
In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen.