I NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR gave up on nobody I dealt with. I TALKED AND TALKED TO Them TO FIX CERTAIN THINGS and when it didn’t get fixed I LEFT simple ..Nobody is going to repeat THEMSELVES EVERYDAY nor are people going to wait forever to get what they DESERVE.. The most selfish and manipulative thought process a person can have is to think you can treat people any kind of way and expect them to be there( saying that’s love and loyalty), then when they leave you say they gave up on you 🥱. Naw you didn’t apply yourself, for what you thought you was ready for. Keep it a buck with yourself, if nothing else💯‼️I only COMPLAINED BECAUSE I CARED once I stop caring it’s over ‼️
Every man MUST watch the Barbie movie, which is wildly popular with young women. Get it through your thick fucking skull. THIS IS WHAT THEY THINK OF YOU.
Barbie was seriously a love letter to all women 🩷 this may be spoilers but these are some of my favorite quotes from the movie!! I already want to see it again 🫶🏼 I love a good cry
A lot of times when a woman leaves a long term relationship the man’s very first thoughts are “she found someone else” “how could she do this” “all these years together and so much more”, BUT what men don’t think is about all the times she went to sleep feeling like shit because she caught him talking to other women. Or all the times that he would disrespect her and call her out of her name. Or How he kept saying he would change but never did...Men don’t think about all the times she was there when no one else was. How she prayed to God to help him change. Men don’t think about how she always put everyone and everything before herself. Men don’t think about how all her friends and family told her to walk away but still she stayed. No...all men can think is “how could she do this”. Women don’t just wake up one day and decide to leave. A mans actions, his words, the way he makes her feel builds up over time and eventually all his bullshit becomes this weight that she just can’t carry anymore. When she stops venting to you, when she stops getting on you, when she stops trying to get you to see things her way just know it’s not because you won and finally she’ll put up with everything, it’s because she’s preparing her escape from your toxic ways. So no she didn’t leave you to find someone else . She left so she can find HERSELF.
Appreciate your woman while you have her fellas...
Ladies...know and realize your worth, love yourself!
be careful, cause you'll never understand the damage you did to someone not until the same thing is done to you. I swear, whatever goes around eventually comes back to you :)
honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
best thing i ever learned was to stop being considerate in situations where i wasn't considered.. if you aren't going to think about me before you make decisions to hurt me then i need to consider me, myself, my heart, and my feelings.
You cannot get mad at a mf for expressing what upsets them.. even if it isn't deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is the key to a mf soul!
Most relationships taught me the more chances you give ppl, the less they value you. They aren't afraid to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anyone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself and choose distance over disrespect