@floridanow1@CollinRugg Yes it did hurt to the extent that parents swore they wouldn’t allow their children to go through it. Now we have a generation of soft children who can’t handle hearing the word no, who need a trophy for participating etc. we went from one extreme to the other.
Calling everything “trauma” to justify toxic behavior isn’t healing—it’s deflection. You can’t mistreat people and label it “self-care.” Real growth demands taking responsibility first.
12. Your default actions make you fat, not “getting busy at work, getting married, and having kids.”
Every single person on this earth is where they are physically/mentally because of their default actions.
Good or bad.
Put down the chips and pick up a pack of beef jerky.