Dear career woman, please, when it is time to make a lifetime commitment, do not marry down.
If you want to enjoy both your career and your marriage, be careful about marrying a man you are significantly ahead of academically and financially.
As time goes on your career will grow. Your income will grow. Your exposure and responsibilities will grow. If your husband is unable to grow with you, that gap will eventually become a source of conflict in the marriage.
Do not make the mistake of thinking love alone will close that gap. You may live to regret it.
Choose a man whose ambition, capacity and mindset is greater than yours so you can always look up to him.
If you so desire to be an exception, then good luck to you.
To all Yahoo boys, take note: The FBI now has an official presence in Nigeria. If you defraud a US citizen while living in Nigeria, the FBI and Nigerian Police will work together to arrest and extradite you to the US. You can’t hide in Nigeria for fraud anymore. It’s over!
But why is she arguing?? The British guy is saying nothing but the truth and fact. You can be a citizen of a country but not a native of that country. It's a simple English fgs... This whole gaslighting won't work. Migration causing confusion.
“Don’t call me Tony, call me Mr. Elumelu or ‘TOE.’”
When I said Tony Elumelu is a content creator with little or no intellect, his supporters were enraged.
Now, what exactly is the difference between being called “Tony” and “TOE”? Much ado about nothing!
This is what Nigerians used to call “money miss road.”
Omoooor. This is so bad. No iota of empathy. So you think if he didn't support this government, he would be immune to all these diseases?? The way you think is baffling.
Only deleted it as a respect to a legend I truly love and adore…also because you urchins will interpret it as me mocking his ailment.
My point stands regardless…when we support failure for our personal aggrandizement…it in turns bites all of us in the ass.
In Tinubu’s era our health system has been the worst and absolutely nothing to write home about…anyone who supports this Government that now comes later to ask for support has only themselves to blame.
However that’s a legend right there and I will never disrespect him.
As for you and your fellow APC urchins…nothing you do will shake me or intimidate me.
I have only just started…Get ready because I will only be more vocal and vocal!!
Opening a WhatsApp group chat today, naming it Nursing fathers and I’m going to add all present + incoming fathers that I know.
Nobody is permitted to leave.
Why this? Women have their community, from pregnancy, birth and ante natal, theres thats community that lets them know what to expect.
Men, don’t really have that and we always try to “figure it out as we go”, why try when you can always know what to expect
This is very flawed my sister. If two adults can have sex without protection, then they are fully responsible, jointly, for the outcome of that decision. If you are not ready to train a child as a man or woman, do not have sex or do not have sex without adequate protection.
There is nothing like not wanting to keep or have a baby. From the moment you decide to sleep with a man or woman, you have made a conscious decision to have a baby. To say otherwise is excusing irresponsible behaviour of a an adult man or woman.
Your post suggests that the moment a man decides he doesn’t want a baby, a product of his sperm, then a woman must terminate the pregnancy. Do you know the risks associated with an abortion? The health risks? The legal risks? The life risks?
A deadbeat is a deadbeat, no matter the circumstances surrounding the birth of that child. Let’s not make excuses for irresponsible men to blame women who decided not to take the most difficult option and risks.
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