Learning to reset your focus in seconds is one of the highest-leverage skills you can build.
Most people don't lose time to the actual interruption...they lose it to the 45 minutes of mental friction that follows. The faster you can drop the noise and get back to what matters,
This week I had to remind myself that no matter how much I have on my plate. I have to make time for fun with friends. Celebrating our loved ones, hanging with girlfriends, talking about boys and life makeup & silly things. This are the moment that revive our soul.
Something I've learned as I've grown older is that your friend group can normalize almost anything.
Drinking too much, spending too much, working too much, complaining too much.
Choose people who make you healthier, richer, smarter, and filled with Joy.
The older I get, the more I realize anxiety comes from trying to live in two places at once. Replaying yesterday. Rehearsing tomorrow. All while trying to live right now. It's exhausting. Come back to the present. Handle the two feel right in front of you. You don't need to fix
Animals live in the actual world. Humans live in a conceptual overlay, a dream we mistake for reality. We are blind drunk on symbols and stories, reacting to our own interpretations, not to what is actually happening.