the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
As a Black South African I’m always confused when people complain about shows that require subtitles to understand
Honey, almost EVERY show that raised me had about 5 languages spoken at once
I am a soldier of subtitles
I don’t even get distracted from the show itself
I work 12-hour nursing shifts and usually meal prep my lunches for the week. Lately, I noticed that every time I made my favorite spicy chicken pasta, a small portion like 3 or 4 bites would be missing from the container in the morning. I jokingly texted him at work: "Stop stealing my food, you have your own meals!" He just replied with a laughing emoji.
Last night, I got home late and caught him in the act. He wasn't eating it. He was cutting up the chicken into smaller, bite-sized pieces and mixing the sauce thoroughly so it wouldn't dry out when I microwaved it at the hospital.
He said, "I know you only get a 10-minute break to inhale your food, so I wanted to make sure you didn't waste time cutting it up."
It’s the smallest things. Find someone who cares about your 10-minute lunch break as much as he does. 🥹 layout the swords, I will defend this man forever.