The reason women won't fuck with you if you don't have your shit together is because then they won't have something worth disrupting. A really choice woman doesn't just want to ruin anybody's life. They want to mess up something especially good. Otherwise it's no fun to take.
Pray you pray a selfish prayer and see it won't make you happy. Then tomorrow pray a satisfying prayer that requires you to grow larger and more selfless. I pray tomorrow you grow to pray a more righteous prayer. And how that more righteous prayer answered all your smaller ones.
When the world becomes especially large, and threatens to swallow you up, someone you love attaches you back to yourself again. They remind you who you are. And they do that by loving you.
She did a big mistake by letting the man in for a little ride to a roadside facing his sexual thoughts and his approach to her she didn't had any other choice but to pull him over the roadside.