One of my favourite quotes to sum up the fallacy of “het. masculine potency vs. feminine modesty” is
“if you consider a woman less pure after you touch her, maybe you should take a look at your hands”
It’s that simple.
I found this interesting video on Tocophobia (fear of pregnancy) and I think it’s a good explanation as to why women fear having children and would prefer to go child free. The social, economic, mental and physical aspects of pregnancy are a real and valid fear.
”This is no ordinary white rice. I worked overtime & came home late, so my oldest boy (11) looked up how to cook rice & made it for me, making it the world's most delicious white rice."