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I am of the opinion that this is not 4C. I think, for most Southern African girls, we have a tighter than 4C curl pattern that hasn’t studied enough. And because there hasn’t been enough research around it, we struggle healthily maintaining it like this
A company fraudulently filed with SARS claiming they paid me a salary for a year, even though I’ve never worked for them. I reported it SARS, attached all documents on their website including an affidavit. Still Nothing and now I owe SARS. Please help. Nigeria Benin
There’s something called “paralysis by analysis” it happens when you spend so much time weighing your options, searching for the “perfect” way or overthinking every detail that you end up doing nothing at all. The fear of making the wrong move replaces the courage to simply start
Roald Dahl: "I never come back to a blank page; I always finish about halfway through. You make yourself stop, put your pencil down and walk away. You can’t wait to get back because you know what you want to say next." #writing
Being considerate is one of those things you have to pick up at a young age, it’s rare for adults to develop that skill. You either got it or you don’t
Every time you procrastinate, you reinforce that behavior. You’re training your brain to avoid hard things. Over time, this creates a self-sabotaging identity.
13 Years to Learn, 13 Seconds to Change:
Depression loves dark rooms, unmade beds, and endless scrolling.
It thrives in silence, isolation, and the comfort of doing nothing.
But the moment you step outside, it loses its grip.
Sunlight hits your face....your mind resets.
A deep breath of fresh air....your soul exhales.
You see people moving, grinding, surviving...it reminds you life goes on.
The truth:
You don’t need a perfect plan.
You don’t need motivation.
You just need to get up and walk.
Step outside. Fight back. Because depression doesn’t live under the sky....it lives in your excuses.
“your 20s are for—“ enough my 20s are for rediscovering all of my interests from 6th grade and realizing that actually 12 year old me was kinda onto something
People who call you disrespectful because you challenge them or corrected them - they measure respect based on how much someone agrees with them and plays as their yes man. Not based on honesty and integrity.
In life strive to be shameless and you will be free. Shameless people achieve so much. This thing of pandering to people's opinions will not get you anywhere