@theogeeeee How many threesomes did you do ? Personally did two, but I didn't find them that enjoyable. It was more for the milestone.
@DanBilzerian
also talks about how he prefers 1v1
It also takes mental bandwidth to postpone the response.
Here's a better solution:
Leave your phone in "Do Not Disturb" 24/7, respond a few times a day when you check it.