No, you don’t always “win.” But you carry a clear conscience , ngengomuntu olenzayo iqiniso for abanye abantu and that’s worth more than any short‑term victory.
Now I fully see the importance of being with someone who grew up in a similar background as you. It literally affects their views on everything,love, family, all of it.
I am almost too passionate for my own good, friends will tell you that I’m notorious for loving at first sight, none of that cowardly business of keeping one foot in and one foot out, testing the waters. I know what’s in my heart. If I love you, I just love you.
I'll never not love women. They play the game like Chinese do business. They don't force anyone. They just operate based on your stupidity, and always test if you're willing to be stupid for them. If you're not stupid they can actually be fair with you. If they think they have more bargaining power than you, they just leave, and we aren't even supposed to kill them. That's fair business. They give great lessons not only relationship ones but if you check closely, you're getting business lessons, risk analysis, decision making, emotional regulation, everything. I love Love them, shem. 🥹♥️♥️