Dear women, stop accepting these shitty advices.
The problem is not honesty its insecure abusive dih men who weaponize trust
Twisha Sharma didn't suffer because she was truthful, but because truth was used against her
Don't normalize secrecy
Normalize rejecting toxic mindsets
Dear women,
Never ever, I repeat, NEVER EVER, discuss your past with your husband or your would-be-husband. Some things need to go with you to your grave! Or else there is a big chance your partner will make sure he digs a living grave for you with whatever you shared with him out of pure honesty and trust.
Not everyone has the maturity to understand relationships and the life choices of a woman!
#TwishaSharma #TwishaSharmaDeathCase
rightly said, India me infertility ka aadha load science ke hisaab se men ka haiโฆ
par treatment ka and image ka almost poora load women uthati hain..
normalize male testing in the cases of infertility too, infertility is a couple's issue, treatment should be too... semen analysis is simple, cheap, non-invasive no reason to delay it while the woman undergoes multiple tests
Probably, I'll never marry, because I don't want to be with a man who treats me like sex doll instead of a human being or a life partner. Yes, intimacy is important in marriage, but marital r#pe is not. No means no.
I would rather die a virgin than be a victim of marital r#pe๐ธ.
#Hyderabad | Nagarkurnool police detained a 17-year-old Intermediate student for allegedly raping three minor girls of his age and impregnating one of them. Police arrested the accused's 22-year-old friend, in whose house one of the survivors was raped, along with two doctors and a nurse of a private hospital for illegally carrying out an abortion procedure on a pregnant minor.
Read here ๐https://t.co/2HC9npkkqy
Getting educated, building financial independence, and having a strong support system changes everything, gain power whilst in the system, become something that one has to bow, when someone has that strength, they're not trapped they can confront abuse brutally , challenge social stigma, and divorce away from such marriages instead of silently suffocating in the name of anyone's happiness, chose for yourself afterwards with a life of your own integrity and terms
You're mocking feminists for wanting sexual autonomy but your logic collapses on itself
In many arranged marriages, the one y'all romanticize cuz normally you won't be getting anyone, two people may meet only once or twice before being expected to start an intimate life together yet somehow you assume that a wedding ceremony or a mangalsutra automatically creates permanent consent
Consent doesn't work like that It isn't retroactively granted by marriage it remains individual ongoing and revocable
So the real contradiction is this you ridicule women for wanting autonomy before marriage and you ridicule them for asserting autonomy within marriage as well What you're actually defending is entitlement without mutual desire or negotiation
Marriage doesn't erase bodily autonomy, one has to be emotionally into it, we're humans not objects you dummy..
CONSENT IS NON NEGOTIABLE.
Getting educated, building financial independence, and having a strong support system changes everything, gain power whilst in the system, become something that one has to bow, when someone has that strength, they're not trapped they can confront abuse brutally , challenge social stigma, and divorce away from such marriages instead of silently suffocating in the name of anyone's happiness, chose for yourself afterwards with a life of your own integrity and terms