1000% TRUE‼️ A lot of these men will tell you “I’m only there for my kids,” but honestly, nobody in that situation should even be thinking about dating. Man or woman, figure that shit out FIRST. Or if you choose to stay living together, don’t bring other people into that messy situation when you’re uncertain about what’s really going on.
Don’t date somebody who’s still cohabiting with an ex. PERIOD. 9 times outta 10, they’re still fucking. Some people genuinely can’t afford to live separately and that’s understandable, but the favorite excuse is always “I’m only here for my kids.” Baby, it’s still weird as hell to be under the same roof with your ex while trying to build something with somebody else. Y’all live together, y’all are around each other every day, and that man has access to his ex whenever he wants. Why even put yourself in that situation. 😂‼️
WHEN a MOTHER goes NO CONTACT with her children’s father, stop being so quick to call her BITTER. 💯 Sometimes she ain’t trying to punish that MAN… she trying to protect her PEACE and keep her CHILDREN from growing up inside the same chaos that was breaking HER down. She got tired of arguing, tired of drama, tired of being pulled into the same toxic cycle over and over while still trying to be a GOOD MOM. BABY, choosing SANITY over confusion ain’t revenge. Sometimes the strongest thing a WOMAN can do is stop participating in the mess and put her CHILDREN’S peace before everybody else’s opinion. ✨