no one talks about the personality shift in your 30s where you no longer want to be impressive you just want to be rested, regulated, and completely unavailable to anything that drains you
i hate to say but financial stability allows you to be romantic and love properly. being broke keeps you in a survival mode and leaves you with little time or energy for romance.
i’m definitely a Type C person 😭 i can wake up at 5am or sleep till 1pm. work 15 hours straight or do absolutely NOTHING for 3 days. text back in 0.5 seconds or 2 weeks later. 😭 i love being alone but hate feeling lonely… overthink everything just to end up saying “it is what it is.” 😂