My gut feeling: Don’t do it
Me: Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I think I’m gonna do it
make sure this person you’re fighting so damn hard for & refusing to let go of isn’t the same person putting you through pain, forcing you to fight & breaking your heart... just saying! some of y’all fight so damn hard for people who make it pretty apparent they don’t care..
you don’t have to hold hands and dance with what you no longer identify with. you will contradict yourself plenty of times before you stumble upon your truth and find what you truly resonate with.
there is a certain intimacy in getting to know yourself that can’t be matched. absorb those moments, swim in that solitude, come up for air whenever you need. you can’t truly connect with anyone else unless you’ve connected with yourself first.