@Walk_yea I genuinely don’t think most people fake it. Here in the US, pregnant women are advised to call if they think something is wrong. U dnt wnt 2 knw how many times they call n when they come in, it’s nothing. Patients tend to be paranoid but they are still encouraged to call.
I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.
Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.
If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.
@NaijaFlyingDr 😂… it’s 8:30pm in Boston. I did however start reading it before a nap and went back to finish it as soon as I woke up. So, it was that good. I completely agree with your article. The miracle a double income is for a family, a capital culture among family & friends is even more.
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@nnatusucks@BigBadReni I don’t know 😔… maybe because I don’t care so much about cheese but if I buy caramel popcorn, I don’t want to taste no cheese….Talmabout “cheese caramel popcorn”. Was just too much going on.
@IamDexterity@DipoAW@GodsgreatG Also, even if you were to target the rebellious cells specifically, it is so easy to make them malignant, radicalizing them to spread even quicker. Which is why cutting off the body part if possible is one of the safest routes to go.
Dear ADC,
Instruct your lawyers to commence a criminal proceedings against INEC Chairman, Professor Joash Amupitan. Misinterpreting “Status Quo Antebellum”is a criminal offense. Prof would have set Nigeria on fire. Keep him busy in court.
PLEASE CIRCULATE THIS MESSAGE URGENT NOTICE: CITIZENS' ASSEMBLY
TO ALL YOUTH LEADERS AND CONCERNED CITIZENS, OF NIGERIAN ADC YOUTH ACROSS THE NATION.
In the interest of justice and the future of our nation, we are calling for a historic gathering. We aim to mobilize 1,000,000 youths to be present at the Court premises tomorrow.
Objective: To stand as witnesses to justice and ensure transparency in the legal process.
Time: 8:00 AM Prompt
“Officer Abeg I go tell you everything. Na my friend deceive me. He Dey Sapele, I go carry you go e place… Officer Abeg”
The Nigeria Police officer shot him twice in public, took him to Area command and shot him THREE TIMES.
He died📍
That young man had dreams‼️
“NO LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER HAS THE POWER TO ACT AS PROSECUTOR, JUDGE, AND EXECUTIONER”
The Nigerian Bar Association is disturbed by the viral video showing the extrajudicial killing of a suspect by police officers in Delta State, as well as the subsequent confirmation by the Police Public Relations Officer that those involved will be tried for murder. This is an arbitrary, unprovoked and misguided show of power by a law enforcement agent. Not only did the act clearly show that the policeman took the law into his hands but portrayed the Nigerian Police Force in a bad light. The sordid act once more put under the spotlight the unceasing allegations I that law policemen routinely violate the rights of criminal suspects and even innocent persons.
The NBA unequivocally condemns this act. No officer of the law, regardless of rank or circumstance, has the right to act as prosecutor, judge, and executioner. The Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria is clear that every person is presumed innocent until proven guilty by a court of competent jurisdiction. Regrettably, many law enforcement and executive functionaries fail to abide by the terms of the laws which set them up as well as regulate their actions, but this is not always the case. They continue to act in manner which must not be encouraged in all decent societies. Some of such actions are usually unconstitutional, illegal and unlawful infringement on the right of individualsIf such unlawful actions by the security agencies continue unchecked, fundamental rights of people may not amount to much in such a climate of impunity.
No society should allow such action to go unpunished. The gravity of the offence captured in that video strikes at the very heart of our humanity, the rule of law, and the constitutional guarantees of the right to life and dignity of the human person. It is s worrisome that in this 21st century, a policeman will summarily execute an alleged robber in a devil-may-care attitude. More worrisome is the fact that the summary execution was carried out in full public glare in grave violation of laws regulating the treatment of a criminal suspect or alleged thief.
While we commend the Police for condemning and arresting the main perpetrator, but this is not enough. The viral video clearly shows that other policemen aided or were involved in this heinous act. The investigation, arrest and prosecution process must extend to any other officer may have counselled aided or abetted the extra-judicial killing as they all will be jointly liable for the heinous act. We therefore call for the immediate prosecution and trial of all officers involved in this heinous act. Any attempt to shield, delay, or dilute accountability in this matter will further erode public confidence in law enforcement institutions and will be firmly resisted by the Bar.
We demand that the prosecution be conducted with full transparency and urgency. The Nigerian people deserve to see that the law applies equally to all, including those entrusted with its enforcement. We hereby direct the Human Rights Committees of the NBA in Warri, Effurun and Udu in Delta State to continue to confront such matters as well as monitor the sequence of events to ensure that this matter is properly investigated and prosecuted. In furtherance of this, the NBA Human Rights Committee and Civil Liberties Committee are hereby directed to closely monitor allegations of violations of citizens rights in any other place, engage with relevant authorities, and take all necessary legal and institutional steps to ensure that justice is diligently pursued and ultimately served.
We reiterate our strong deprecation of this unsavoury conduct. It must stop. We must rise to ensure this and similar recklessness acts, stop. The bad policemen in the Force must be shown the way out to avoid giving it a bad name.
PLEASE CIRCULATE THIS MESSAGE URGENT NOTICE: CITIZENS' ASSEMBLY
TO ALL YOUTH LEADERS AND CONCERNED CITIZENS, OF NIGERIAN ADC YOUTH ACROSS THE NATION.
In the interest of justice and the future of our nation, we are calling for a historic gathering. We aim to mobilize 1,000,000 youths to be present at the Court premises tomorrow.
Objective: To stand as witnesses to justice and ensure transparency in the legal process.
Time: 8:00 AM Prompt.
Nigerians The APC Chieftain Amupitan is still pretending to be your INEC Chairman, we Must Not be quiet, increase the Volume,
AMUPITAN MUST GO❗️
#AmupitanMustGO ❗️