Mathapelo Makgwadi

Senior application developer

[Thendo Muloiwa @MuloiwaThendo]

I want to show you guys exactly the difference between renting and own. For the past 2 years I lived at this place in Victory Park rent was R12k. My unit was on sale for R1 400 000.
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[DrMusa @DrMusaMthombeni]

If you hear anything about me that’s isn’t about me loving my baby girl, school, career, family or generally enjoying life, it’s a lie!

Angizwani neNonsense!

[Softboy @softboywin]

I once killed a plant by watering it too much, and that’s how I learned, even good intention can be harmful in excessive..

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Unfortunately I do give up on people, you cannot continuously drain me, disappoint me , take from me and expect me to continue showing up for you..

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

To be honest, we are not meant to address everything we find out . Sometimes…..just adjust your guard.

[Singy Ntini🇿🇦 @SingiNtini]

@ThembisileQ21 @iam_titanium1 Black women don’t get shamed enough for this nonsense 🚮

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

I saw someone say, “My hyper-independence comes from how little urgency people show when it comes to me,” and honestly, that resonated deeply.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

You will be minding your business and someone is planning to come into your life and make you a side chick, unprovoked! Men are not good people 😭

[6ɪx✦ @ok6ixx]

i think I lost my spark. I talk less, I keep to myself, I've mastered distance. I'm not angry, I'm not bitter. I just don't have the energy to show up like I used to. Somewhere along the way, I slipped into this I don't care phase.

[Chi @__Poisonivyyy]

I admire how men leave when they’re not happy. They just leave and don’t care how much it hurts you. I aspire to be that selfish.

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

My gift to myself this year is a peaceful nervous system, no matter what.

[Xiluva Meleni @meleni_xiluva]

Please carry your struggles with a touch of dignity. Venting doesn't always help. People treat you differently when they know too much information about you.

[𝒶rα˚˖𓍢ִ໋ @yslmammi]

breakups hurt but you know what really fucking hurts? trying to “make it work” with someone who has proven to you time and time again that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. that hurts.

[Mkhulu Bae @LesegoMalapane1]

Dawg ra tseba you can always start over, but dont ruin a good thing with the delusion of having other options, o tlo khawathega

[Maryam @hell_line0]

No one talks enough about how exhausting it is for a woman to continuously give grace to a man. Too often, that grace comes at the expense of her own needs, her boundaries, and her peace. What starts as love slowly turns into self abandonment.

[NaNa🌼✨ @sil_vee_yah]

Friendship carried me through some of my toughest moments in 2025. To all my friends, I love you🤍.

[Tate N Nghidinwavali @ThreePeatMadrid]

My childhood trauma left me with a deep fear of being in places where I’m not wanted. Nothing makes me shrink faster than the sense that my presence might be unwanted or burdensome.
It’s also why I am unable to beg or plead; I need to feel wanted, not endured.
/tolerated.

[Chi @__Poisonivyyy]

I'm usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We ain't never gotta talk again. That's perfectly fine by me.

[𝒶rα˚˖𓍢ִ໋ @yslmammi]

I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

I stayed with a man who was half ready. I hoped. I waited. I extended grace. I tried to meet him where he was instead of honoring where I was. Over time, his lack of readiness pulled me out of my character. I became reactive. I became hardened. I started responding in ways that were not aligned with who I am. That is what misalignment does. It erodes you.